Did I Insult My Fiancé?

Good morning Aunty Amara,  please I want you to counsel on this case.... If I am to tell my fiance " am in your life to also help you build your empire and not just to eat from it" is it a bad intention or word to say... Because he felt like he's being insulted .... Please am I to say " am to destroy his empire or what?

I Am Deeply Saddened, Heartbroken, Hurt and Worried.

Hello Madam, I am in deep pain and heart broken at the moment and I therefore need your counsel. I am from Rivers but dating a girl from Akwa Ibom for over two years now. I intended to marry her but after the first year of the relationship I lost my job. She has not been very demanding as she understood my situation as a result of the job loss. The loss of job also created a distance between us because my former job city was quite close to the city she was schooling.