I'm Losing my Sanity in my Marriage!

Good morning ma,

Before I got married to my husband in April, we did not date or have a good friendship. We court for almost a year, but we didn't stay together.

During our courtship he was dating others and when I found out, he will lie and sometimes deny it. When I get too angry, he will ask for forgiveness. Then he hardly call or text, he was so harsh to me but do not beat. He hardly attended to my needs, no time for me, we hardly had a pleasant discussion.

I Don't Have Any Affection For Him Anymore.

Please ma, there's this guy that came asking me for a date at my 200levels, and I didn't accept him cause he's a student in final year then so I believe is skull relationship. 
Now am serving and he's working, earning good salary, so he came back in March this year that he wants us to start a serious relationship that he wants to come and see my parents for introduction, but I told him to wait cause we need to study each other first.