Monday, May 18, 2015

Games Men Play

I keep wondering why some men are confused. They often come asking me to get them a good and homely woman. These ones don't always pay for my services. These men are in their forties or fifties, good job, good house, good car, but they lack the ability to decide on the issue of marriage. These ones have issues with every woman they meet. Even if you introduce ten women, they won't choose one because they believe everything must be complete in one person (like they are perfect). And the cute guys are not even the ones doing this; it's the no-so-cute ones. 

A man in my church, then 48 years old, a prayer warrior (according to them), but he succeeded in dating every girl in church all in the name of 'I will marry you'. Before I
got to know who he really is, he came to a singles event I organized, saw this very homely girl (a pharmacist) who I always praised. The girl is from a wonderful and godly home. Believing that brother was serious, I got them connected. The next thing was him accusing the girl of not being nice, telling her that girls where begging to come cook for him on Valentine's Day and she cared less. The girl quickly reminded brother that she would do Valentine when she's married. Then brother asked her to go for deliverance before he could marry her. This lovely girl subjected herself to this, three times, until the deliverance pastor in church told her never to come to him again, the man made it clear to her that there is no demon in her. The next thing was for brother to start accusing her of being a serpent, he personally called me to say this and that's when I gave him a piece of my mind. The sweet girl abandoned him immediately and today, she's happily married to a more focused person. 

There is this other guy who uses 'I will marry you' to eat women's food. This very guy who is all over the place making noise on the Internet (he's intelligent), is broke. He moves about in his SUV, but the truth is that he has no place to lay his head, he squats with friends and most times, sleeps in his office (he currently owes the landlord three years rent). He specializes in this style so well that many ladies are falling for him. We often laugh because we know he can't even afford five thousand Naira for food. And the worse part of it is that he is not even ready to marry those ladies. 

You chat with a girl online and the next thing is , 'I want you to visit me and cook for me'; wondering why you haven't hired a cook. And who told you it's ethically right to have your first date with her in your house? Your first date with her should be Ina public place until she's comfortable with you. 

Why are you so confused? When will you get tired of your playboy life and concentrate on raising a family? If you don't do something about it now, you will get more confused with time. Stop deceiving our sisters. Stop putting women through pain because of your greed. Today, you want her tall and dark; tomorrow, it's short and light skinned. You fall in love with a girl and the very moment your friend steps out with his woman, you want her type. You sure need MFM deliverance. 

Ladies, please stop falling for these "I go marry you" guys. They use that just to get in between your legs and most times, have a cheap chef and housekeeper. Let that guy stop flaunting your to the world. Let him stop making you act Mrs. before your time. Let him come for you when he's serious. I have also noticed that some of these guys visit spiritual houses, especially prayer contractors who get them more confused. Don't allow them drag you into their confused life. 

And for those of you asking me to get you a wife, I have decided to stop wasting my time. Now, you have to pay my fees and we have our terms and conditions. I am too busy to waste time with players. 

16 comments:

  1. Well written. Some ladies even cross boundaries to please men all in the name of i will marry you. my watchword is #BEYOURSELF

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  2. Lolz.. So true... Confused men are the worst one can meet.. But aunt Amara i dont mind being hooked up through you, though to someone who can pass your focus test. Would appreciate.

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  3. Very true. There was this guy that was always timing my meal times. always coming to eat free food. forming fine boy whereas, no shishi in his pocket. so crazy!

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  4. Nice write up. I believe such men are unfocused hence their inability to love and marry a woman, warts & all.

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  5. Such men are not ready for marriage,like someone commented here they are "Unfocused Men".

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  6. I have a cousin who turns herself into a wife before when she's still in the process of consideration. She practically calls the any man that she dates her husband. Cooks, cleans and washes his cloth not to mention having sex with him. The guy threw her out one night. She still hasn't changed. May the holy spirit please visit her. Amen.

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  7. Lol... but some of our men need deliverance o... but how would a man even think of bringing in a girl into his house when he can hardly fend for himself? is that not wickedness? As for me, you must not be super rich but I must be comfortable and the innocent kids too

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  8. Confused men. They are never serious in life.

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  9. So true, ladies need to understand that until he stands facing you at the alter, his "i will marry you crap" is still just crap

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    1. I like the last part of this comment

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  10. Confused men. They are never serious in life.

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  11. Amy you nailed it may God continue to grant u more wisdom.

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  12. Please bill them well, I just wish our young ladies can learn from this.

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