Tuesday, June 2, 2015

First Class Single Man

My own understanding of a first class single person has nothing to do with material things and social status. I know you have your own understanding of this, but I also know that after reading this article, there will be a change of mind.

Let us look at some of the attributes and qualities of a first class single man.

Decency is what will make you know what to drink, when to drink it, and how to drink it. Decency will make you keep away from every one night stand (don’t pretend please, they still enjoy your patronage). A decent man will not throw a party with the aim of getting girls drunk so they end up sleeping with his friends. He knows how to talk in public. He is not lousy.  He doesn't go about bragging about his new rides and houses. He does not move about telling whoever cares to listen that his wrist watch is Cartier and Rolex. He does not bore ladies with all that, 'I was in Italy last week to shop for my wears...' People appreciate him based on what is in him and not because of what he wears.

There is nothing in this life as rewarding as godly living. I believe strongly in what King David said, ”I was young and now I am old, I have never seen the righteous forsaken nor his seed beg bread.” Godliness here is not about moving from church to church and walking as if you cannot hurt a fly. What we have now is a situation where the world is in the church and the church in the world. It's now a gospel of 'it doesn't matter'.

Nigerian men tend to leave spirituality in the hands of women. I see very bad men take their time in marriage trying to get a godly woman for a wife. A first class single man understands that life is nothing and meaningless without God at the centre. You wife can and should pray for you, but you should work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. 

Respect for women
I wonder what will make a lady stay with a man who treats her like a piece of rag before marriage. Some girls now prefer money to genuine love. This is why we have men turn to beast instead of being what they should be to us. We have suddenly made them believe that we desperately need their money and are ready to die than leave. I see women, even celebrities fighting for men who have no regard for them all because of their pocket. What a big shame! 

A first class single man will never stoop so low as to sleep with his girl’s best friend or sister. Hmmmm, seems you are guilty of this.

If you are a first class single man, you will pamper and celebrate your woman. You will not have your marital status as 'open relationship' while you go on telling her that she's your one and only. You will not make her to be jealous of other girls; you will make other girls jealous of her. 

Good sense of style
First class singleness isn’t about expensive designer wears, but good dress sense. Fashion isn't about too much makeup and jewelry; it's about simplicity. I don’t understand why a real man will leave his house with so much jewelleries on his neck, hands, fingers.You can wear these things, but with style. You may have to change those shiny suits you wear. We know it's expensive, but thing is called sunshade and should not be worn inside church. 

Some young men wear expensive things, but that doesn’t change the fact that they are untidy. First class single guy; what do people perceive when you raise your hand in church during worship? What kind of smell emanate from your mouth as you talk to that lady? What is the condition of your shoes and the collar of your shirt? When was the last time you had a night bath with your mouth brushed before bed? How many times do you wear those boxers before washing? When you get your legs off the shoes, what happens? 

Hard work
It is very sad that guys of today appear to be very lazy. What matters to them is just short cut to wealth. Hard work is not about acquiring wealth fraudulently because you are bound to pay someday, somehow. It is not about doing drugs and destroying lives. Hard work is not about going into politics just to enrich yourself and generations unborn.

A good number of our men these days are gigolos who do nothing but sleep with people’s wives. Some of them are now into homosexuality with some dirty rich men. Every Satan's Apple has worms inside.
Sir, hard work is about you knowing your purpose on earth and striving to live it. The most miserable man on earth is not a man who is physically poor; it is that man who lived and died without fulfilling destiny.

Now tell me: Are you a first class single man?

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