my write up is very long but please take your time to read them. here is my story...
I travelled to my village five years back and I found a very beautiful girl that was living next compound to mine,we fell in love with each other and when our families started noticing our relationship together they called us both that we should stay away from each other that we can never get married cos we were related,and when I went further to ask they told me that we are from the same great grand father that if we are caught having sex we would dance round the whole village naked.
I love this lady very well, and she loves me too. since am a lagosian who doesn't know the custom of the village and who doesn't care I ignored them all and went ahead to have sex with her countless times. I was even the one that deflowered her and we decided to take a blood oat,after a while I went back to lagos and lost my phone and so many contact including hers,after some years I heard she has gotten married with two kids.
I was surprised but I didn't have any other option than to move on with my life too.
I am now married with two kid but since I got married it has been from one problem or the other I have gotten so many jobs and have lost them,along the line I taught I married the wrong woman maybe she has bad luck so I started beating her and making life difficult for her even parked her things out one day Infact she has really gone through a lot in my hand yet she was still happy with the marriage and has refused to tell her family members that she was being maltreated in my house.
Now that I have started retreating my mistake and have been trying my best to make it up to her,my phone rang and it was this same girl,she was telling me that since she got married she has been having problems in the marriage she told me that she was forced into getting married to her husband that she got my number from my cousin and she still loves me very much,she went on and reminded me about the oat we took many years back that we promised never to leave each other and if we do calamities should befall us,that calamity has befallen her cos things has been very bad for her and her husband,to cut the long story she want to see me and resolve issues I should send her my address and the state I am now she will come over. please I need serious advice right now.thanks.
Dear sender,
You need to first of all meet with her and then neutralize the blood oath that you took with her.
Until you've done that,you will continue to experience hardships and calamities in your marriage.
These are those tines in life when one is tempted to ask what benefit(s) there is in taking blood oath because most times it only put the partners in bondage and challenges that could have been avoided.
Please desist from having sex with her and focus solely on breaking the blood oath.
I am happy that you have realized your errors in beating up your wife and I am hopeful that such will not repeat itself for any reason.
Its time for you to set your life on the right track to avoid destroying your future and that of your children.
When you have dissolved the blood oath,please go into prayers and cancel any effects your decisions and actions may have caused for you.
Let your wife know so that she can support you with prayers and words of encouragement as you embark on this spiritual exercise.
I pray that God will show mercy to you,your family and her own family.
All the best.
Good advice Ms.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure if this your story is not cooked, you love her, deflowered her, lost your contact and felt less consign to get the contact since she is from your village and you call it love?
ReplyDeleteAnyways, what baffles me is when people mess around all in the name or modernization. You were told that you are related, and you still went ahead to have sex with her, cos you felt that as the village people can't catch you, the gods won't?
Do you know the meaning of blood Let alone covenanting with it? It is as strong as what you can't imagine. Prayers alone can't solve it unless you break that oath. You must meet her again, reach out to people who know the procedures. This is not the matter of going from one pastor to another, go back to your village and sort out yourself, if not, you will be messed up for life.
You're a lagosian, ok, tell Lagos to come save you.
I'm not sure if this your story is not cooked, you love her, deflowered her, lost your contact and felt less consign to get the contact since she is from your village and you call it love?
ReplyDeleteAnyways, what baffles me is when people mess around all in the name or modernization. You were told that you are related, and you still went ahead to have sex with her, cos you felt that as the village people can't catch you, the gods won't?
Do you know the meaning of blood Let alone covenanting with it? It is as strong as what you can't imagine. Prayers alone can't solve it unless you break that oath. You must meet her again, reach out to people who know the procedures. This is not the matter of going from one pastor to another, go back to your village and sort out yourself, if not, you will be messed up for life.
You're a lagosian, ok, tell Lagos to come save you.
You have to set your self free from this bondage. #Ella
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