Thursday, July 30, 2015

I felt betrayed by his action.

Good day Aunty Amara. please help me,am losing my mind. 
I started dating a guy early this month after trying to woo me for four years. 
That was when I was still in school. I went to his house yesterday and one thing led to another he deflowered me. 
The most painful thing was he said he did it intentionally so that nobody would do it. 
I felt betrayed by his action. I don't know if I can still continue with the relationship. 
I have always prayed to preserve myself till that wedding night but it is obviously not possible. 
Should I continue with him or break up with him?

Dear sender,
As painful as your mail sounds, the decision to either continue with him or not is solely yours.
What I couldn't figure out is whether he really loved you or your body.
He slept with you so that he could claim the trophy of breaking another virgin island but I don't know if he really has anything serious with you with respect to your happiness and future in life.
I wish that you never lead yourself to his room, I'm pretty sure that one thing wouldn't have lead to another.
Before I forget please do go for a pregnancy test when you get any body signs and don't forget that you have no excuse for abortion.
All the best dear.


  1. I hope he used protection, women these days though

  2. She resisted for 4 yrs only to go to his room and LET one thing LEAD to Another? She should ask herself a lot of questions.

  3. Is that the kind of man you want to be the father of your children? A role-model for your sons? A mentor for your daughters? Is this the kind of 'boy' in whose hands you want to put your life,and expect to groom you into a great woman? You are better off without him!

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  4. Lol @ one thing led to another,u also wanted it and he didn't rape u so my dear take a chill pill


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