Monday, August 31, 2015

I'm Scared of This Type of Marriage.

Hi Aunty AVL. Good evening to you and your fans. 
I am a 26 years old girl and a graduate. I have a boy friend who lives abroad. 
We met a year after my secondary school and he later travelled out in 2012. 
The problem now is that he wants to come down and marry me and also marry a white lady over there just for his papers. I asked him how long that will last but he said that it depends. 
Please I need your advice Aunty AVL and fans cos am scared of this type of marriage. 

He has to choose between getting married to you and getting his papers. If he chooses his papers, then you don't need to get married to him for any reason but should he decide to get married to you, then he should be ready to accept whatever his decision may cost him. 
Granted that green card is awesome, it cannot take the place of the one that he desires to get married to nor does it mean that you can condone his infidelity for the sake of wealth and satisfaction. 
Please do let him know your stand and please do yourself a great favour to avoid regrets later in life. 

1 comment:

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