Sunday, November 15, 2015

How Will it be When I'm Married?

Hello sis Amara, I've been dating this guy for like two years now though from the start he beats me up and will later ask for forgiveness promising he won't do it again.....
The mistake I made was agreeing to live with him. He moved in with me having in our minds that we will settle together... The problems now is that he will not want me to talk with any guy openly, any guy he sees me with have something with me. That I should forget my past colleagues. I will keep my bags he will search them to know how much I have, he will search my phones, read my messages.
Any little thing he will beat me up, seize the phone I bought with my money all time. I've told him I don't want anymore that am moving out.
He keeps telling me that I will lose cos am woman. I told him God forbid. I believe am doing the right thing by trying to move out because I wonder how it will be when I marry him.
How my life will be I can't take. I need advice.

When God created you beautiful lady, he never promised you a weak, jealous, insecure and an abusive man as a husband. 
He never told you to work out his promises for your life but only pleaded that you walk in obedience to his word and patiently wait on him to perfect his promises for your life and destiny. 
Sometimes it baffles me that a beautiful lady with lovely body and great vision will reduce herself to a punching bag painfully for a man who haven't even paid any penny on her head. 
The real question for you is, young lady who are you and what value do you place over your life? 
He beats you, seizes your phone, searches your bag and keeps you in the prison of his own roof and you're still looking for an advice? 
Are you waiting till he destroys you completely before you will make use of your conscience? 
Please help yourself before you become a casualty of an abusive man. 
If of all Godly and loving men God has created, you choose to settle for an abuser, you are really a loser and of all women the most miserable. 
Please trace your father's house if you don't have any place to stay and heal from all these years of emotional torture and humiliation. 


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  2. Nna mehn.... Ihe na-eme. Babe,you mean after all these our shoutings and warnings(that makes us look like fools sometimes),you still permitted this kind of thing? O Lord,how else do we say these things so your children would listen and save themselves all these unnecessary pain?? Safety laws are not for fancy; Relationship Rules are not for decoration - they are for your SAFETY,your SAFETY,your SAFETY. These things are not about morals. You would do well to listen. If you want God's result,do it God's way. There is no way else. Whatever you gain by compromise,you will eventually lose,with pain.

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  4. It appears he has put you in prison already & by if you marry him,he'll DEFINITELY put you in dungeon.Run for your life.Let no one recreated you from whom God made you to be.Cheers!!!


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