Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Should I Accept a Sex Toy?

Good day ma, please I need advice from you and lovers of this page. Am a wife and a mother of three kids .
My husband cannot satisfy me sexually, he has a problem of premature ejaculation. He has taken some drugs but it still did not help, now he said he wants to buy me a sex toy.
Am confused and very angry right now. Should I accept the sex toy or leave the marriage . He is 54 and am 35 years old.

I want to believe that your husband visited an urologist or his family doctor who examined his organ and gave him the prescription that he took. If that was what happened, then you may need to encourage him to visit the hospital for a follow up on that. 
That said, you need to understand that what he's experiencing is peculiar with his age groups because at that point in their lives, they may not be firing as much as young men do and this could be as a result of varying factors such as, sugar content of the body, fat or cholesterol content of the body, the state of his heart, and his blood pressure. 
Instead of loading him with so much pressure or encouraging him to take drugs that will make him sexually powerful, I will suggest that you encourage him to engage in some form of exercise to shed off some fat and cholesterol and please do not prepare his meal with so much oil or serve him with many fries or animal protein especially chicken and the likes. 
Make his meal close to nature, serve him vegetables, roughage, and fruits. 
Prepare his meal with fresh garlic, ginger, white onions and moringa seed or leaves. 
While penetrative sex maybe difficult and full of tension to perform, encourage him try more of romance, caressing, kissing and gentle whispers of his love for you. 
He doesn't necessarily need to give up unless there are some other health factors which you didn't specify in your mail but I will not encourage you to go for a sex toys because it is an idol that has the potential to wreck your marriage and bring misunderstanding and sex wars in your marriage. 
This is the best time to support him and let him know how much you appreciate his personality. This is the best time to follow him and figure out what the challenge could be and how you could help him to overcome this. 
No man wishes to replace his penis with a toy so do not think that he's not as worried and emotionally frustrated as you are. 
Pray with him and pray that God will heal him and help him regain his confidence to have good quality sexual intimacy with you his wife.


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