Friday, December 25, 2015

What Can I Do to Get my Parent's Support?

Good day ma, please am confused help me
My name is C, am 27 years and am into a relationship for three years now with a man of 32 years. He is from the same community were I grew up. He is God fearing man and from a Christian home his family can not do with out God that is number one thing why I like him.
He is a nice man, a husband material among all men that has come my way he is the best both in character and other things. Am not saying it because we are dating no. Now we agree to marry but the problem is traditional issue OSU(Outcast) he met my people to pay my bride price, when they found out where he came from they were disappointed they said that he is good for me but he can't marry me because of the OSU.
I pleaded with my people that we are all Christians and I did not believe in it but they refused and they said if I marry him they will disown me. We love each other very much, I have prayed on my own and the revelation is clear that he is my husband and the prophecy they gave about him and I is clear. I so much believe in God because in my life without God am nothing, I always do things based on his directions and I explained it to my people but no one listened to me. I need my parent's blessings and their support in my marriage especially my mother no matter what.
Because in marriage love alone is not enough to handle what is in it. I don't know how to go about it to avoid had I known or to regret why I did not marry him. I really need your advice and that of your fans. God bless you for your good work.

When I am confronted by two authorities, I will conveniently go for the higher authority because I am confident that the higher authority will take care of the lower authority. 
An outcast is a culture shrouded with so many myths and tradition and if you don't work with traditional beliefs but the word of God, kindly let your family know what you stand for and why you cannot compromise on your decision. 
The truth is that if you wish to get your mother's blessings you may lose God's promises for your life and well I have no idea what the consequences of such will be. 
It's a sensitive one and all I will suggest is that you seek the face of God, be convinced before taking any decision on this. 
The world may reject you but if you are at peace with God and your family, you have all that life can offer you. 


  1. I wonder why we claim to be Christians yet evil traditional practices are still
    maintained even by pastors, I always remember one day i told my mum that i will
    never consider the osuness or not of whoever i will like to marry, she bluntly told me
    that I should pray she dies before then, I was so weak over all she said. meanwhile I
    haven't even seen any person. My dear, this a serious war, But with God on your
    side victory is sure. Continue to persuade your people and pray God change their


  2. I am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for over 9 years and we had two kids. thing were going well with us and we where always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treated me and the kids. later that month he did not come back home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted traditional spell hospital for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he casted on him that make him come back to me. my family and i are now happy again. Thank you Dr. Aluta for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay. He cast spells for different purposes

  3. With God all things are possible. Seek Him with all your heart and you will find Him with answers that overcome all.

  4. Enter your comment..

    If you are sure and convinced he's God will for your life. Pls God back to the same God who showed him to u only him know the road map to bringing u together. However, God is the final authority and he supersedes traditions of men


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