Friday, April 8, 2016

I'm Worried Cos He's a Stammerer!

Good evening ma. I hope you and your family are doing great. Please i really need you to counsel me on this issue of mine. I'm a 24 years old lady. There is this man I met in my hometown in January this year. He is 36 years old, nice and God-fearing. He proposed to me the very first day we met and promised to marry me, but I don't have any feelings for him.
My major worry is that he is a stammerer and I stammer a little too. I'm scared that this may affect our children if I go ahead and marry him. I'm always anxious and afraid of speaking in the public. When I was a child, I suffered from low self esteem because I stammer and I don't want my children to suffer the same. Please advise me on what to do. Thank you!


From my little research, stammering can be as a result of some stress and difficulties that a baby experienced during delivery, it may also be hereditary (though some researchers have conflicting opinion on this) and it could be environmental influence on the baby. If a child is surrounded with stammerers, there's a tendency that the child may adapt to stammering as a mode of communication.
That being said, stammering can be corrected using both psychological, emotional therapies and linguistic therapies to support the individual depending on the degree of the stammering.
However if you feel uncomfortable or worried with his speech challenge and you feel that you cannot manage it, then simply let him go and move on with your life. You don't need to manage anyone who is in love with you.
While I can relate to your fears, stammering is a defect that can be managed effectively with the right therapy but what I cannot guarantee is whether stammering is genetic and transferable.

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