Friday, September 30, 2016

Don't Think I Can Trust Him Anymore.

Good day ma and may God bless you for all you are doing. Have been meaning to write to you for a while now cos I have a lot of things going on in my life but I haven't had the nerve to. I live outside Nigeria and am dating a  guy whom I will say he always makes me happy though he told me he have someone back home he wants to get married to after we started  dating, I know I was supposed to end the relationship but I was cool with it.

He tries in making me happy always. I needed a little financial assistance from him and he said he doesn't have, that I should bear with him. We don't stay together but I do visit him on weekends and days when am not working. I went to his house last weekend and I was going through his phone which I know is wrong and I don't usually go through his phone and I saw a message he exchanged with a girl he spends a  night with and paid her which was the same day I asked him for money and he said he doesn't have.
I don't know if I should ask him or not to, cos I try my best to be a good woman to him and he treats me in a way that I can't even suspect a thing. He's so down to earth with me and always tells me everything but with this I don't think I can trust him anymore. 
Please advice me on how to go about it cos I don't want to end it in a way it will resolve to quarrel. Thanks and God bless you

If you were comfortable with being a second best to him in the relationship, I have no idea why you are worried, angry and hurt by the message you read in his phone.
The truth is that he's a smooth operator (a romantic Casanova) who knows how to slip into the heart of a lady, tune the channel of love in her and exploit her to his advantage, and you happen to be a perfect fit for his games. 
He pleads like he's melting but cheats like he's breathing.
Since you're no longer enjoying the romance, please let him know that you've got some dignity to protect.
How you say it doesn't matter, what matters most is that you quit hanging out with a man who loves freebies and doesn't wish to make any commitment to you. 
It's better to be single trusting God for your partner than to invest your emotions and time with a man you cannot trust.

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