Friday, September 30, 2016

Don't Think I Can Trust Him Anymore.

Good day ma and may God bless you for all you are doing. Have been meaning to write to you for a while now cos I have a lot of things going on in my life but I haven't had the nerve to. I live outside Nigeria and am dating a  guy whom I will say he always makes me happy though he told me he have someone back home he wants to get married to after we started  dating, I know I was supposed to end the relationship but I was cool with it.

He tries in making me happy always. I needed a little financial assistance from him and he said he doesn't have, that I should bear with him. We don't stay together but I do visit him on weekends and days when am not working. I went to his house last weekend and I was going through his phone which I know is wrong and I don't usually go through his phone and I saw a message he exchanged with a girl he spends a  night with and paid her which was the same day I asked him for money and he said he doesn't have.
I don't know if I should ask him or not to, cos I try my best to be a good woman to him and he treats me in a way that I can't even suspect a thing. He's so down to earth with me and always tells me everything but with this I don't think I can trust him anymore. 
Please advice me on how to go about it cos I don't want to end it in a way it will resolve to quarrel. Thanks and God bless you

If you were comfortable with being a second best to him in the relationship, I have no idea why you are worried, angry and hurt by the message you read in his phone.
The truth is that he's a smooth operator (a romantic Casanova) who knows how to slip into the heart of a lady, tune the channel of love in her and exploit her to his advantage, and you happen to be a perfect fit for his games. 
He pleads like he's melting but cheats like he's breathing.
Since you're no longer enjoying the romance, please let him know that you've got some dignity to protect.
How you say it doesn't matter, what matters most is that you quit hanging out with a man who loves freebies and doesn't wish to make any commitment to you. 
It's better to be single trusting God for your partner than to invest your emotions and time with a man you cannot trust.

1 comment:

  1. My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in NewYork 2 months ago.He has been avoiding my calls and told me he is working,i got suspicious when i saw a comment of a woman on his Facebook Picture and the way he replied her. I asked my husband about it and he told me that she is co-worker in his organization,We had a big argument and he has not been picking my calls,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James( a Private Investigator who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husbands Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husbands phone. where i found so many evidence and proof in his Text messages, Emails and pictures that my husband has an affairs with another woman.i have sent all the evidence to our lawyer.I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence against my Husband in court.


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