Heartbroken: Never Loved a Lady That Much.

Thanks much for your advise the other time...I really appreciate. 

You see, that lady I told you about eventually said YES and we both started a relationship afterwards as we progress, I did all I could to make her happy, care and lots more....but the relationship was one sided, I was the one doing everything to make it work but she wasn't sure of we both being together. She asked me to give her time for her to grow in love...which I agreed. Many a time, she will blow cold, I'II ask her if there was any problem or is there anything I did wrong or not doing right....she will reply me that she wasn't convinced yet and haven't gotten a revelation from God, as a result she is not yet opened.

Six Categories of Individuals you Shouldn't Consider for a Serious Relationship.

Love/relationship makes you extremely vulnerable, because in your bid to connect with your partner or build a relationship with your partner, you will definitely reveal the good, crazy and the weak aspect of your personality.

This is why you must be extremely careful when choosing who to love or date.

To help you avoid wasting your time, emotion and resources, here are the six categories of individuals you shouldn't consider for a serious relationship that may lead to marriage. 

 1. Religious Dummies. 

In your best interest, you may wish to avoid dating a religious dummy. These are the kind of people that their pastor makes decision for, from what to wear to how to use their brain. 

They are so attached to their religious obligations or leader that they find it difficult to make any decision without consulting them. 

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being devoted to a church/mosque or having a personal relationship with God, but when an individual is unable to make a personal decision without consulting or wholly depending on leaders, then there is a high tendency of being manipulated by those they confide in.

Are my Actions Towards Him Appropriate?

Good evening ma, please I am lead to share this with you and also get a direction from you if am doing the right thing. I have been reading your post and love how you guide people right..

I am a lady of 26 years old, I have been in a relationship, for four years now, with a man of 30 years old. Though during our second year of relationship, he wanted to come and see my people but my family suggested he hold on first till when we get a job so that we can be fully be prepared for what we are going into..which he agreed.

Something happened last three months ago; when I went to visit him, I saw lady's properties in his house; which ever since we have been dating, I have never dropped my clothes or bags in his house not for anything.

Should I Keep Up with my Boyfriend or Kick off with the New Guy?

Hello Aunt Amara

I can't seem to access your website that's why I'm in your inbox.
I'll be 28 in some months time and my boyfriend is 33; I love him yes and he says he loves me too, but communication between us is poor. I've complained about this several times but all I get is an apology and a promise to improve, but this promise is never fulfilled. 

How Do I Confront Him with My Findings?

Good day to you ma, God bless you richly for the good works you are doing. Please I need your advice.

I met a guy in my third year, we have been together for two years now and everything has been going on well between us. He has been very good to me and his family is in support of our relationship.

When we met two years ago, he asked me to tell him my turn off in a relationship, so I told him I can't stand an unfaithful man and I also wouldn't want to marry any man who has a child/ren with another woman, and he said he is free from all of that.

He's Acting Strange!

When my fiancé asked me out, I thought he was just trying to play me. At first, I wasn't ready to accept him until he started sending me some marital messages and later told me that coming close to me isn't a joke.
That he truly loves me, he want us to plan for our future together.

Did I Just Waste Two Years of my Life with Him?

Good morning ma, my heart is broken, I am crying and weeping for wasting two years of my life.

My name is D, I am a corp member serving presently. I have been in relationship with a guy for almost two years. I never liked the guy, was thinking

How Do I Move on After Losing my Dignity and Respect for Love?

Good morning ma. I need advice from you and your followers. My issue is quite lengthy, bear with me. I was in a relationship for twelve years.

Within the first three years I refused sleeping with him since I was very young, and wanted to keep my virginity. He started sleeping with other girls with the excuse of refusing to sleep with him. I later accepted. Along the line I dated someone else. When he discovered, he was furious and I broke-up with the guy. I didn't sleep with the other guy.

Am I Expecting So Much From Him?

Good day ma... Please ma, I am so confused. I have a suitor who said he wants to marry me, yet he hardly call me on phone. He stays in Abuja while I stay in Enugu.

I have known this guy for the past ten years, yet has never asked me how I manage to pay for my hair do...

Where Do I Belong In His Life?

Sis good evening, please there's something I want to tell you about. There is this guy who I have been dating for five years now, I have been faithful to him all these while and we are both students.

He never come to me one on one to talk about marriage, he only talk about it on phone, but it is not a long distance relationship.

How Do I Get Rid of Him?

Auntie, good day. I appreciate you for the time and wisdom you use in helping people. Please I need some help on an issue I have.

There's this guy that has been approaching me for a long time, like six years now, and I don't know how to get rid of him.

My Fiancé Wants to Dump me for another Lady.

Good afternoon Aunty  Amara, please advice me on what to do in this situation.

I am 29 years while my fiance is 40 years.. I dated him for ten years, we started the relationship when I entered university..

Am I Fighting A Lost Battle?

Aunty Amara good day, I need your help. I met my man at a school where we were teaching. He later got admission to study in a University in 2015. I applied for University last year too but I wasn't favour, I applied for another school, I told him about it and he said he is okay with it.

The problem started on a certain Sunday when I called him, another lady picked his call and told me he wasn't around. Before I could ask further questions, she sighed and switched off the phone.

Should I Marry a Man I've never Seen?

Good morning ma, thanks for everything you have been doing to attend to people's case on this platform God bless you sis..... Please I need response on this issue...

I met a guy on Facebook like some months ago, we started dating though he's not in the country.....

Is Hubby Having an Affair with my Mum?

I have been married for like four years now, and I have been observing some characters from my hubby.

I use to school at Dubai before I got married, I had to leave Dubai because I was married and my husband couldn't continue the fees because he was not very rich.

I Am Afraid to Approach a Lady for Fear of Rejection and Heartbreak!

Good evening big sis, I am an ardent follower of your page and I love to read every comment and advice here, and as such I have learnt a whole lot.

My problem is that I am too emotional, and I have fallen so many times for girls who only act like they do love me but they truly don't.

Should I Terminate the Relationship?

Hello ma, I am an ardent follower and you have been doing a great job.  More grease and grace mam.

I met a girl about five months ago on Facebook and we have been talking since then. Three weeks after we met, my place of work shut down operation in my town of residence and they wanted me to relocate to Lagos with out any provision for accommodation or salary review which is not favourable to me, so I had to quit. Ever since then I have been looking another job.

Should I Avoid Her and Entertain other Ladies?

Good evening ma, I wanted to share with you something bothering me.
I've been dating a girl for seven months now, and we both have intentions of getting married. I've never loved any lady like I love my girlfriend. I wish to speak to her everyday, wish to see her smile every time. She's the most important person in my life aside my family, and I keep telling her and treating her as such. She's my joy, smile, present, and my future. In short, she's my life. I love this girl dearly.

Should I Date Him or Not?

I need to ask for your advice in this one
Amara. I'm a 16 years old girl. When I was 6, my mom left my father's house because she couldn't handle the ill behaviours of my dad, that left me down-casted.
After two years, she came back and

later divorced without saying anything to me.

How Do I Confront Him with these Screenshot?

Hi Aunty AMY,

My problem goes thus .
I have a man I love dearly.
He means the world to me and am quite sure he feels the same for me.

There's this lady he always chat with.
He claimed the lady is really into him while he feels nothing for her (They are just friends).