Showing posts with label Fiancé. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fiancé. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 3, 2018

He Slapped Me for Snoring!

I feel shy and ashamed at the same time to say this. Please I need to ask what to do to this matter in my life.
I didn't create myself and I mind what I eat.

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Should I Give my Fiancé an Ultimatum?

Aunty Amara good day.
Please is it good to give your fiance ultimatum?
He has introduced me to his entire family and so have I but he isn't financially stable for us to settle. We've been planning to settle down since last year.
Aunty I want to leave but my heart won't let me.

Wednesday, October 18, 2017

I'm Dying, Will He Dump Me?

Good morning ma, I have been following you up here seeing how the Lord is using you. Please ma post my story cos I am really in a mess right now.
I have been dating this man for five years now and all these while, we have been happy staying together.

Tuesday, September 26, 2017

My Fiancé Wants to Dump me for another Lady.

Good afternoon Aunty  Amara, please advice me on what to do in this situation.
I am 29 years while my fiance is 40 years.. I dated him for ten years, we started the relationship when I entered university..

Sunday, August 6, 2017

Am I Overreacting?

Good day Aunt Amara, God bless your good works and everyone attached to this group. Please ma, I need candid opinions of all matured minds on this issue.
My fiancé stays with his entire family presently but he's making arrangements on getting an apartment of his own soonest by the special grace of God.

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

I See Him as a Big Lair!

Good morning ma'am,
Thank you so much for what you have been doing. The story I want to share goes like this.
I met my fiancé, he got me engaged. He always said...'he couldn't stand a woman who will cheat and all that', I told him same thing that it was a deal breaker for me.
He then asked if I had a forgiving spirit, I said 'yes' and asked the reason behind the question, and he started narrating how his mother was soooo forgiving and he didn't want to end up with someone who will maltreat him for any little thing he did to her. Then...I took it for that.

Thursday, June 8, 2017

He Rarely Shares His Plan with Me!

Good day ma, thanks for your wonderful advice, please I need an advice on this. I and my fiancé have plans to settle down this year,  but he hardly discuss his plan on how it will go.

Monday, April 10, 2017

My Fiancé Aborted my Baby Without my Permission!

Good day Aunt Ami, may God Almighty bless all you have been doing to heal the broken hearts and restore marriages. This my second time of writing to you, am a die heart fan of your great ministry, please I need your advice on this issue. 

Friday, December 16, 2016

The Meaning of Marriage

Ruth 1:16-18
But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or to turn back from following you. For wherever you go, I will go, and wherever you stay, I will stay. Your people shall be my people and your God my God. Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord do thus to me, and worse, if anything but death separates you and me!” When Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she said no more to her.


Friends,
If you are getting married with any mindset other than this, you are bound to fail or remain unhappy in your home. It's sad seeing what this generation has made marriage to become. It's worse seeing religious leaders, all in the name of exercising faith, tell people that marriage is only "in health and riches". According to them it's a proclamation of faith. But I want to let you know today that proclamation of faith and taking of vow are two different things. That vow simply tells your spouse that come rain, come shine, you are with him or her. And don't be fooled; even Jesus told us that in this world, we shall have tribulations.


This is the mistake gospel preachers often make, telling new converts that life will become sweet because they came to Christ. The truth of the gospel is that it gets tougher when you are in Christ, but the only difference is that you have so much peace in the middle of that fire. Life is about ups and downs and so whether you say that vow or not, gloomy days will come.


A good number of people now go into marriage prepared for battle; they map out strategies to effectively carry out their plans against in-laws and spouse even before the marriage proper. My dear ladies, please run away from those friends encouraging you to be mean to your in-laws. Some go the extent of praying for their mother-in-law to be dead. As you are

Tuesday, November 1, 2016

My Fiancé is Addicted To Indian Hemp.

Good morning ma, my friend introduced me on your page. God bless you so much for you wonderful work, more wisdom. 
Ma my problem is that my fiancé is taking Indian hemp which I confronted him,

Saturday, October 8, 2016

Should I Wait For My Fiancé Or Move On With My Life?

Good day Aunty Amara please I need your help not just as a member of the great forum but as a daughter.
I have been dating my fiancé for three years, he works with the federal government in one of the uniform job, his salary isn't much, he has lot's of family burden on him, and he's
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