Good afternoon Aunty Amara, please advice me on what to do in this situation.
I am 29 years while my fiance is 40 years.. I dated him for ten years, we started the relationship when I entered university..
This guy will not call my number, I will be the only one calling him, sometimes if there is little misunderstanding he will not call my number for three months, sometimes six months. He will later beg me to allow us to settle. Despite my people's warning to leave this guy, I had one year and five months old baby for him.
Though we did only introduction but he told me recently he is dating another woman and he is ready to marry her. I pleaded with him to stop his jokes and he should marry me properly but he said he cannot change his mind again, to the extent he got accommodation for her, he promise to marry me,if I can cope.
I told his people I cannot continue the relationship again but all his family were fighting with me, they called me coward, that I should be able to become closer to this guy and move back to his house and stop the affection with him and the other lady. Please advice me.
When it is motivated by pity, please flee from such a marriage because you will continue to beg for his love and attention.
When he's no longer interested in marrying you, please don't force yourself on him or beg him to marry you. His family may try to encourage you to use your woman power to hook him up, unfortunately your woman power cannot stop him from approaching another woman.
At this point, I will suggest that you give him the freedom and space to make his own decision, and then respect his decision.
Both of you can take care of your child without being married to each other. Don't force love, especially when he doesn't feel the same way with you. Don't beg for marriage, unless you wish to continue begging to remain in marriage.
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