Are my Actions Towards Him Appropriate?

Good evening ma, please I am lead to share this with you and also get a direction from you if am doing the right thing. I have been reading your post and love how you guide people right..

I am a lady of 26 years old, I have been in a relationship, for four years now, with a man of 30 years old. Though during our second year of relationship, he wanted to come and see my people but my family suggested he hold on first till when we get a job so that we can be fully be prepared for what we are going into..which he agreed.

Something happened last three months ago; when I went to visit him, I saw lady's properties in his house; which ever since we have been dating, I have never dropped my clothes or bags in his house not for anything.

I Want to Leave the Relationship but it's Difficult for Me!

Good pm, God bless you for the work you are doing. My story will be lengthy.

I am in a relationship and our relationship is ten months old this month. I am sponsoring this girl at catering school. I am the one that is paying the bills, even her transport fares everyday, her cloth, I change her hairstyle like every three weeks.

This is the girl I wanted to marry next year once she graduated, and I made my intention known to her family.

Should I Quit or Wait for Him?

Good morning Aunty Amara, thanks so much for your advice to relationships, please I need your advice.

I have been dating this guy since 2015, we work in same office and he has been talking about marriage, but everything has stopped because he lost his dad this year July, and he's yet to be buried.

She Treats Me Like an Option!

I've been dating this girl for one year. We are both from Igbo states, and we loved each other. From on set I made my intentions to marry her which didn't change even as we had issues and I'm yet to engaged her (waiting for her to set the platform right), I've taken her to my family.

I Feel so Hurt and Cheated!

Good evening ma, may the good Lord reward your kind deeds. Please advice me on this.

I had this guy from my town, he is 39 but single, he had a child with his ex, though he said they were not married.

Why Should I Hold On When He's Afraid of Commitment?

Good day ma! May God bless you.  When it comes to emotions we find it really hard to tell ourselves the truth, though some people would judge me for having a baby but then I had made a vow not to abort any baby again as have done it twice. 
We dated for two years and half before we had an issue about

Is It Proper For My Ex Boyfriend To Marry My Sister?

There is this guy that I have been in a relationship with for three years, though there was no sex between us though. We broke up because of some challenges in my family cause they all felt it was too early to go into courtship then as I was still seeking for admission then, but we loved each other so much.

I Am Deeply Saddened, Heartbroken, Hurt and Worried.

Hello Madam, I am in deep pain and heart broken at the moment and I therefore need your counsel. I am from Rivers but dating a girl from Akwa Ibom for over two years now. I intended to marry her but after the first year of the relationship I lost my job. She has not been very demanding as she understood my situation as a result of the job loss. The loss of job also created a distance between us because my former job city was quite close to the city she was schooling.

Should I Tell Him About My Past?

Hello sweet aunty, I bless God for your life and your ministry. I am humbled to write you again but this time with tears dropping down my cheeks. I have heard sad experiences all bottled up, and it saddens me a lot.
I had these molestation as a girl child while growing up by people I knew. I couldn't open up then because I was quiet and extremely shy girl. I was a pious and devoted Christian who spent most of her time in church as a teenage girl, until I was molested again and raped by a church member.

My In-laws Don't Like Me.

Happy new month ma. I want to appreciate you for the good works you are doing here. My wife is a good fan of this page, she told me about the page and I have gone through your page and I see you can help me.
My parents in-law don't like me and these are their reasons

I Don't Think I Have Forgiven my Husband.

I became a single mom at 18 and since then life has taught me to be strong. I couldn't continue with my son's father because he wasn't ready to shoulder his responsibility. I met this young and wonderful guy, took a while before we started dating; we were compatible and he was so nice to me and my son. He never cheated on me, and always respected my opinions. We couldn't go further because his family was very diabolical, polygamous, had too many property issues and didn't support his relationship with me. So we painfully separated.
After a while again, I met another guy. The kind of man I wanted; never judged me for having a son, a very spiritual person, prays more than me. We started dating and he said no sex. That was a wow for me!! He made me meet his family after two months of our relationship and I fell in love with them. A prayerful mother, warm sisters, wonderful brothers etc. They welcomed me didn't judge me too about my son. We dated for two years then by the third year we got married. But before then we started indulging in sex.
He proposed a night to my birthday, went for introduction the next month and started getting ready for the traditional wedding.
Both of us travelled to his village which is about one hour from the town we stay for Christmas and new year. After the cross over night in church, I was tired and slept for long only to be awoken by his little niece. I got to sitting room as I was about to sit down I noticed his phone and removed it to sit down only for WhatsApp messages to be rushing in. It read " you only come to me when you want to make love, I'm tired and can't wait to have you again".
My head turned. I gave him the phone to see; he started blabbing. I asked for an explanation but he was denying. I got the number and called the girl. At first she was insulting me, then I gave her a threat of her life. She opened up, told me how they met, when it started and that they have been having sex together. I found out that the date was about the time he proposed to me.
He would sleep with her and come home to face me. ( we started living together about the introduction time).
I have never been cheated upon, even my son's father let alone my ex so I didn't know how to handle it. My wedding was in two months and I was faced with the hardest thing. He wasn't opening up. I smashed his phone, picked my things and told him to drop me off. My mother in law was wondering why I was going so soon cos we planned to cook together that morning. I couldn't bear it but left but she noticed something was wrong with me and kept asking questions I just told her I got a call to report home. I knew she wasn't convinced.
I cried throughout the trip. He finally told me it was a mistake. I told him to call off every preparations. He kept begging. I couldn't imagine that he will be the one to call the girl that he feels like making love to her and they'll arrange to meet at different hotels. I don't know if I handled things well but I scattered so many things, tore some invitation cards ( he hid the rest). I couldn't bear it but report to his mum.
Mother-in-law cried and begged me not to go and after so many talks I just told her that I have heard and left. I think I forgave him partially and we continued the preparations. Everything went well. But once in a while it plays in my head, I imagine the scene, and I just hate him. Most times I feel like hurting him real bad till now that I type. I just hope it doesn't get out of hand. It still hurts me like I just found out.
Please advice me.