Know Your Spouse; Enjoy Intimacy

A good number of women feel that men should know how to make love to a lady and most times, they get disappointed. A good number of men expect their wives to be super hot in bed, but she turns out to be frigid, cold, and simply managing sexual intimacy. Out of displeasure, many have introduced a lot of deception and manipulation to sex making it more like competition for the men and a boring duty for women.
Men watch pornography and then treat their wives like animals while thrusting. Wives, on the other hand, are so busy with their children, career, church, and friends that they no longer have enough time to enjoy genuine intimacy with their husbands. They are no longer making efforts to satisfy him (though many cannot be satisfied as they want the woman to become their sex slave).

I'm Dying of Depression!

Ma'am please I need your advice.... I am at my 32 years old now. In 2016, I got a new job which took me to a very popular city in Nigeria. I stayed with my aunt but after one month of my stay there, I was pleaded by my aunty to introduce me to a guy that was asking her to connect me to his friend that is in search if a wife.

At first I refused because I knew what I was looking for in a man, but later excepted to go on a date with them and I met the man I was introduced to and we both liked ourselves. The next day he asked me out just, the two of us, which I accepted and that was when he told me that he was once married and how badly the lady treated him, and the marriage lasted for just a year before the lady and her family returned her bride price....

I noticed how heartbroken he has been and I decided to love him and make him forget everything.... We talked about our past relationships and I told him I wasn't in any relationship at that time; and that was the honest truth..but he told me after his marriage broke-up that he only sleep with ladies and pay them off, and one lady among the runs girls they use to bring for him was the one he thinks is a nice person, then he asked her to stay with him so he can take care of her.

I asked him why didn't he want to marry her, and he said the way they met and they didn't agree to marry and they were not together anymore..... I accepted

How Will a Man know if a Lady is Sexually Attracted to Him?

Hello Ma, Good afternoon. Though it may sound strange but it is true. It is true that there some guys(Brothers) who will and could keep to the Bible standard of "Marriage is bed undefiled. But the truth still remains that sex in marriage isn't something to be swept under the carpet. However, God's command MUST be kept!

Now Ma, here is my puzzle that needs your solution . In what way(s) could a Bro/guy know if the girl in question is equally sexually attracted to him?

Ever since I got Pregnant, He's been Acting Weird to Me!

Good evening ma, I met my boyfriend in December and we started dating in January. I just found out that I am pregnant for him and he insists that I terminate the pregnancy. I told him I won't want to subject myself to such,

Benefits of Kegel Exercise

Kegel floor muscle exercise is one of the best exercises that ladies and men need to fully enjoy sexual intercourse and have maximum pleasure in the act. 

In this article, I will be highlighting benefits of Kegel floor exercise, and why you should consider exercising your floor muscles.

• Intense Pleasure. 

Five Nasty Things You Shouldn't Take to the Bedroom

 -Poor Hygiene
Nothing crushes intimacy more than a dirty and unhygienic spouse.
You can't be desiring that he licks you real good while your underarm, under your breast, and your vagina oozes out that offensive odour.
How do you expect her to get turned on when your underarm is like a thick forest? You want a good oral sex but won’t take down the thick forest around it. You won’t even wash clean before the act.

Hubby Ejaculates Too Quickly; Help!

Good day Amara, please I need you to save my relationship with my husband. I got married almost five years ago at the age of twenty six.

My husband is God's special gift to me. But I have never had good sex with him. He ejaculates too quickly.

Since I got married to him, he has never lasted for up to

Thrust Tips for Men

Many times, you don't need to ask your spouse questions like, did you enjoy sex?, Did I perform or satisfy you? The reason is simply because the body of a woman is designed to tell how you performed in the act.

If she isn't wet enough,

How do I Enjoy Sex with Him?

Good day ma, happy mother's Sunday. I need your help urgently

After I was disappointed by my ex, I made up my mind to stay celibate until the right person comes. I put all my mind in it to the extent I no longer get the urge for sex.

How Will I get Out of this Situation?

Dear Amara,
My name is Theresa  E and I’m your fan and always feel inspired by your teachings.
At this point in my life I need help, and I’ve thought of where to go only for my intuition to guide me to you!
I’m 31 years old and I’ve been in a relationship for the last four years, this being the fifth one!

Before touching on the deep issues that I have at hand, I would like to appreciate the man in my life, despite the flaws, he’s a caring man and loving, and I won’t exchange that with less!

Is Having Sexual Thoughts a Sin?

Dear Brethren,

When has sexual thought become a sin? If you like, deny it; if you like, tell me I am a liar, the fact is that your teenager is struggling with sexual thoughts and it's a phase he or she must go through. Being born again doesn't mean you stop existing in this world;

How Do I Tell Him that I am Pregnant?

Good evening ma, please I need your wise counsel. I have known this guy for one year now, though we don't stay in the same state, but we meet when he comes back.

This January, we met: made love, and thereafter he sent me a message that he was going to the village, that he lost his niece.

Sexual Intimacy with Him Terrifies Me!

Good morning ma, I have come again ooo
Please I need someone to talk to...

My man (35 years) came to meet my parents Dec 2016 in order to marry me, but my dad said I must finish schooling and serving before marriage.

He also went to the man's place, and seeing how tattered their house was,

Our Bedroom Life Frustrates Me!

Hello good morning mummy...

Please ma... from the last advice you gave me... I decided and kept working on loving my first guy E... Trying hard to leave prince Murray who is a Muslim and chronic womanizer, though he really love me because he has and is still willing to do more to ensure my happiness but regarding to advice for peaceful marriage. (Read Here)

He Caught me in the Act with my Boss!

Good evening Aunty Amara, please help me cause am losing my mind.....

My boss have been sexually harrasing me, he has forcefully slept with me twice at the office.

Last week, my boyfriend who has never asked me of sex and loves me very well caught us in the act.

Is This Marriage or Slavery?

I need your advice on this.. I met my husband in 2013, we dated and got married in 2015. We were two imperfect people that seemed perfect for each other cause I am  temperamental while he is very calm to issues; I am the outgoing type while he barely goes out. Regardless of our differences, he was teachable and gives room for change if need be.

Two years into the marriage, after the birth of our first child, my husband changed completely. According to him, what prompted the change was that he is now a devoted Christian.

Will I Ever Meet a Man Who Won't Demand Sex in Relationship?

Good evening ma happy Christmas in advance.

My name is P. I am confused whether to obey the word of my pastor or not. I am 27 years old and I am also a fashion designer.

Early this year I was told by my pastor that there is a marriage that is very close to me.

I Feel Like I Married the Wrong Man!

Good day ma, I joined this platform recently and I must confess you are doing a great job here, may God reward you accordingly.

I am a lady of 29 years old with a son, I got married three years ago, but all along I felt I made a mistake and married the wrong person

Hubby Starves Me of Sex for Months!

Dear Sister Amara I like the way you handle people issues, I really need advice on what to do.

My marriage is nine years old and I have been managing this problem. It started after I gave birth to my first child, I have prayed over and over about it and even still praying about it.

My hubby is not sex type that is what he told me (I nerve heard it before ),

I Regret Getting Married to Him!

I am 29 years old and I got married last year August. Currently I am five months pregnant and I am sad in my marriage.

Truly I can't believe I am in this type of marriage where I wish to turn back the clock and make a better decision.

My story is long but please be patient. I met my husband through my friend's husband. He has a character and temperamental issue which I have discovered all of them in his family do have.

The worst of all is his ability to keep malice for years as a man which keeps me