Friday, May 15, 2015

Her Lips are filled with Negative Confessions.

Aunty Amara thanks for this platform . please help me with this issue as I prefer to remain anonymous. I'm married and i love my wife . what we have shared over two years ago as couples let me know, no doubt that she also loves me. but I'm deeply worried that each time we disagree over anything she starts these negative confessions such as ,
*I hate you with passion:, *my heart is now as hard as rock:., * I will now give other men chance to be happy * I'm no more with your wedding ring etc most time I always initiate a peace talk and we iron them out. latest issue: I returned from work the previous night with cough symptom and also told her that I will be leaving by 5am the next morning to enable me meet up an appointment with my boss. she said she will be joining me on the way to her school , I said ok provided she can wake up as early as that time. I took my cough syrup and went to bed only for me to wake up around 6 :30 am .I equally woke her up as she went back to bed after using the convenience. I got ready and on my way out of the room she rushed into the toilet telling me to wait for few minutes. I didn't wait , so I left with hope she make use of the public transport. On my way few minutes later my little niece called me and said aunty is crying please is it possible i come back to pick her?? at this point I couldn't help it but turned back to the house then picked her. but my problem is while we tried to talk on the car ,, she said she doesn't love me anymore. she showed me her wedding ring finger telling me that she has removed the wedding ring in order to relate with other men and find happiness. . please I'm running out of patience hearing my wife telling me those things every time there is disagreement. .. please help me out ,also post it for member to advice me. thank you .

8 comments:

  1. To my understanding she love you and those words are nothing but word of mouth it is not from her mind,she let them out because she was upset. What you have to do is to call her to her attention talk to her one on one make her understand that you're not happy with those words. #PullDatPant

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    1. I think you are right, women complain and say things like that because they are not feeling the man's love and they want to be pampered. The man should show more love and pamper her

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  2. How old is she? Obviously she is still a baby. Who even told her 'older men' have time for her with the way she sucks? She should grow up.

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  3. I think you are right, women complain and say things like that because they are not feeling the man's love and they want to be pampered. The man should show more love and pamper her

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  4. She is using it as his weak point.

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  5. Hmmm! I just hope she is kidd, buh!! This is 2 expensive. Am confused oo. But I think she needs a seriouse councilnn.

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  6. Hmmm, she's intellectually & spiritually immature. At times women cause their own problems. I'll advice you have a serious talk with her, it's not in all cases u pamper women, you need to be firm. God grant you wisdom to handle it

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  7. when someone tells u things believe them.she is not in love with u.i used to tell my ex the same and today we r no longer together thank God

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