Friday, May 15, 2015

Scared of Her parent's threat but loves him so much

Good evening Ma,please hide my I.D.
Am 24 years l have been dating a guy for two years..when l was in 200 level he was supporting me financially but he is not all that financially buoyant then, he decided to meet my parents for our marriage plans but my parents rejected the guy that his family is not living in peace and that they are osu (slave) people...
Then l insisted but my parents said that if anything should happen to me that l should not call or involve them into the matter...
l became scared but l love this guy so much but the words of my parents are using is really getting me l decided to break up with this guy but he has been threatening me to pay him all he spent on me that if l refused to pay him that he will deal with me...l don't know what to do now...just need an advice no insult please

Dear Sender,
From your mail, I feel that you are in love with a stranger and you do not know anything about him.
Your parents told you who his family was, how they live and their local status.
But you accepted his assistance even though you were scared of him,
Please take your time to discern what you need in a relationship.
Your happiness is worth much more than the opinions and perceptions of others.
Do not let anyone push you into making a decision you shall regret later in life.
If you are convinced he is not the one for you, then kindly let him know and disengage yourself from him.
He may say anything because of the pains of losing someone you love but with time he move on.
Commit everything to God in prayers and allow him to give you the wisdom to make the right decision.


  1. You're not getting married to his family neither your family but to him. If you really do love him then do what you think is Wright. #PullDatPant

  2. hmmmmmmmmmmmm...#confused much.

  3. Gudfortune OnyebuekeMay 16, 2015 at 4:42 AM

    From the guy's threat, u should know ur parents are right about him, so just forget him cos he won't do anything

  4. Ermmm... it's not hard to see just maybe he isn't the right guy for you. for him to threaten you to return all he has spent shows how immature&arrogant he is and trust me you don't need that kind of person in your life. Your parents were right about him. Kindly avoid him and move on with your life

  5. Pay him all he spent on u then.


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