Thursday, July 23, 2015

I'm not getting younger anymore.

Please Aunty;
I am a lady of 30,i have been dating this guy two years  now.
He is graduate but don't  have a job;though he is a caring guy;love me and i love him too.
The problem now is that am not getting younger anymore.
I have given him from now to December to meet up if not  i'll quit the relationship and he is pleading. I don't  know  what to do.

Dear sender, 
I understand that age isn't on your side but then I would love to ask you, do you want marriage much more than your happiness? 
Are you because you are not getting younger, end up as a casualty in marriage? 
I understand that you are getting worried but please don't lose focus on what matters most in life. 
I may not know his efforts and commitment to getting a job bit I would suggest that he diversify his source of income and develop himself. 
Let him invest in learning some skills, skills will always make you the boss of your company than sharing CV would. 
He may start up a business and be responsible for his needs and plans in life. 
Whatever happens, the decision either to leave or stay with him is solely yours. 
Please do remember that your happiness is worth more than a Mrs tag or any wealth that you can think of. 
Trust in the lord with  all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, rather acknowledge him in all your ways and he shall direct your path. 
All the best. 


  1. 1. You are not ready for marriage UNTIL you don't need to be married ~ Dr. Myles Munroe (emphasis mine)

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  2. 2. Dear Guys/Girls,before you start talking about marriage,certain things has to be in place. One of such,is FINANCIAL INTELLIGENCE,and a measure of FINANCIAL STABILITY. Guys,it is wrong to engage a lady when you don't have a job yet. Go and get a job first. Then,a 'girlfriend' later. 2o find out the other requirements,please, get the book,'WAITING AND DATING: A SENSIBLE GUIDE TO FULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS', by Myles Munroe ‪#Quick‬Downloads™101

  3. 3. Dear Sister,what are contributing in your relationships? What are you bringing to the table? How prepared are you for marriage? Have you discovered your purpose in life? Marriage is just a means to fulfil that purpose. Google 'HEATHER LINDSEY' to learn more.


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