Thursday, July 23, 2015

When would he be buoyant for marriage?

Good day Ma.I must say weldone for the Job you are doing on the singles. 
I wish to bring my worry to this forum so I can also hear from you and your fans. 
I am a lady of 30 years,I have been dating a guy of same age for a year and half now.
we both love each other but my problem is he told me he would like to marry me but can not promise me when because he is not financially bouyant now.
I ran into my old time friend and he is asking me to have a serious relationship with him as he wants to settle down also ready to settle down but I don't feel for this guy what I feel for my boyfriend.
When I brought this to my boyfriend all he said was 'he loves me but cannot stop my happiness, if I want to go I should' I felt so hurt to hear that.
My fears are when would he be bouyant for us to settle.
Am not getting younger.
Please I need your advice.

Dear sender, 
When love meets age, what you should consider most is your happiness. 
I must categorically say that many couples are not happy for one reason or another. 
Some married their family's choice, some out of pity and some because of finance and age. 
You see, marriage is a life time commitment and you cannot afford to build your marriage on things that are temporary. 
Marriage encompasses the spiritual, emotional and social well-being of a partner. 
If you aren't emotionally attracted to him, you  may be setting yourself up for marital torture for the rest of your life.
You should know that everything we do in life involves one form of risk or another including the air that you breath.
Whether you choose to wait for your partner or decide to leave ,there's no guarantee, only wishes.
Before you make a decision, please use your knees and and hear from him who first loved you.
I'm so certain that he would show you what is limited to the ordinary eyes of men. 
Do not be in a haste because another man is in the picture, hear from God. 
He will never disappoint you. 

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