Thursday, August 27, 2015

I Find it Difficult to Make a Choice.

Good day to you Aunty Amara,am a 24 year old lady and a graduate. 
My main problem is that am confused,I had a guy I love so much but things did not turn out well for us because he lied to me and he had another lady apart from me. 
When I found out, I was heartbroken,though I love this guy so much but I can't imagine myself with a guy who cheated on me and lied to me,and still he finds it difficult to make a choice between the other lady and I. 
On the other hand there are two guys asking me out which both of them are caring,loving, understanding even more than my Ex,in fact they have all the qualities I want as a lady. 
I even find it difficult to make a choice between the both of them. 
I don't know if there are other qualities that are hidden I should look for. Now the problem is am confused on who to follow bearing in mind that my Ex is asking for a second chance and I don't want to cheat,even though I don't know if he is still going out with the other lady. 
Please pardon me for my long write up and grammatical errors, am truly confused presently,please help me,your advice would go a long way,thanks and God bless. 

When you go to the market without a shopping list, you will either waste your money on the things you don't need or waste your time looking for what you don't know. 
Sweetheart, I feel that you need to go back home and prepare a shopping list so that you don't get lost in the market because there are many goods in the market, some appearing real but fake, some appearing original but expired. 
Relationship is not always about getting the man who has the qualities you need, it's also understanding where you will fit in when you are with him. 
Relationship incudes understanding your passion in life and discovering your purpose on earth. 
This will greatly help you to find a partner who appreciates your personality and is willing to invest in your passion 
Take your time dear and don't be in a haste to commit yourself to any partner if you don't know his vision, appreciate his personality and know his relationship status. 
As for your ex, I feel that you don't need to pay too much attention since you've tasted his meal and can't tell what he want in life and in a relationship. 
I won't forget to remind you that you need God much more now because every prosperous marriage begins with a wise choice of partner. 
Commit everything to God on prayers and take your time prepare yourself emotionally and spiritually before venturing into a relationship. 

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