Wednesday, September 9, 2015

She's Not Forthcoming!

I met a girl just one year ago,we both enjoyed the relationship with good communication.
Finally we made an agreement that she was going to introduce me to her family for marriage negotiation.
Suprisingly,she emotionally changed not like before. She calls me only when her needs arise,rejecting my calls or giving me anegative response, without an apology.
And she is always giving flimsy excuse when I try to remind her about her promise.
I really need an advise that will fish me out from this mess.
Thank you.

You didn't state her age and her current human capacity development that is whether she's in school, working or engaged with something currently. 
However I feel that you may be choking her with your desire to marry her making her a bit scared and somehow not forthcoming with the plans you two had for each other. 
Maybe you should give her some time, continue with friendship and allow time to reveal her fears or intentions for the relationship. 
Please do not throw caution in the air, get to know the heart inside the beautiful skin and her attitude to life. 
Find out what her passion is in life and her skills, listen much more than you talk about your plans. 
Give her some time and please don't give her the password to your Account balance to avoid regrets should she not accept your intentions for her. 
Friendship and dating should not be an avenue for deception of any sort or kind so when next she comes up with her needs, find out if she's seeing you as a nice person or a man who means the world to her. 
It's better to marry a lady who sees the man in you and not the niceness of your pocket. 
With more time and communication, you will know whether to continue with the relationship and plans for marriage or to bid her goodbye and trust God for a partner who appreciates your personality and purpose in life. 


  1. Dear,if she doesn't want you as much as you want her,let her go. Any lady who is noi convinced you are the best for her,is wrong for you. Marriage is not a favour!


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