Wednesday, November 25, 2015

My Husband Gets Angry Easily!

Good Morning ma,please let me voice out before I die in silence.
Am 29 years and he's 40 years, I met him in 2012 and we got married in 2013 and by the grace of God I have two boys but the problem am facing in my marriage is that my husband gets angry easily.
He nags and complain a lot,he's always finding faults in everything,and when he's angry he can voice all sorts of nonsense (insults) which I don't take back at him,only when he mention my people that I can get very angry and take back,and he won't allow me explain even when I want to. 
I hate shouting,but when he's angry,at times he will come outside the house shouting,and I won't say a word but after that" everything about him will start irritating me,I can't even look at him, even when he tries to talk with me,I won't give him that face,and at times I will leave him and be sleeping in another room till God knows when. 
Because before if I want to overlook his behavior and come close to him,he would take advantage of it for another insults. He has not laid his hand on me o, like beating me or whatever.. He takes care of us but because of his character am beginning to dislike him seriously,at times I wish we can just stay without talking to each other for so long or that he will just travel and stay there for so long. 
Please are I doing the right thing?and how best can I handle him.. Sorry for the long post and errors.. God bless you more


Sweetheart, 
If you wish the love of your life to travel and never return, you are almost wishing him to be dead and I'm not sure that's what you wish for yourself and your lovely sons. 
Yes he gets angry easily and shouts at every slightest opportunity but sweetheart there is always a reason for the toad to be running during the daytime and I feel that there could be something you are not doing adequately which makes him lose his temper and shouts at you. 
I am not in anyway supporting his reaction but I am suggesting that you look inward to identify the flash points of your marriage and work on those areas to avoid him shouting and embarrassing you in the manner in which he does. 
How about treating him like the king of your heart and offering him great sex after which you can cuddle up to him and express your suggestions to him while apologising for anything you weren't doing well. 
If he offends you and then tries to communicate with him, I don't think that snubbing him deliberately will bring any positive results to your marriage nor will it help you find the peace and love that you crave for in your home. 
You said that whenever you gets close to him that he takes advantage of that to insult you but now that he's getting closer to you, why not use the opportunity to express your displeasure at his public announcements of your private life issues and work out ways to curtail that no matter how angry he maybe. 
You need to help him understand that nobody else ought to know about your misunderstanding or challenge except you and him and that he owes you that courtesy to always respect your privacy by not shouting at every little errors or misunderstanding that you may have with him. 
No matter what you think or feel, please never you bridge the gap of communication between you and your husband because that's a crack on the foundation of your marriage which has the potential overtime to break your home and destroy every virtues and time that you have invested in the marriage. 
As a woman and the home maker, you must learn more how to use your knees to control the mind of your husband and how to use your tongue to massage his ego and inspire him to be better than he has been in the past. 
It's a great gift that will help you find your place in the heart of your husband and draw his attention whenever you have need of him. 
Finally, if we all keep the offence of our partner in our heart, no marriage will survive the challenges and rigors of our weaknesses and errors. 
Learn to forgive especially when you feel hurt by your husband. Forgive him not because he's your husband but because of your relationship with God who desires that you give love and not revenge in your marriage. 
Forgiving your husband will help you heal faster and make him more appealing to you even though he may have many flaws. 
Forgiving him will help you identify his weaknesses and find ways to help him overcome them or help you find ways around it so that it doesn't repeat itself anymore. 
Never you wish that your husband is far away from you that you cannot even kiss him because.. Lol you can never tell what you are missing until you look around and discover that he's no longer there and you can't do anything to bring him back. 
I believe that your marriage is growing from strength to strength and I pray that God will shower his grace and favour to you and your family and give you the wisdom and patience to be a help meet to your husband. 

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