Friday, January 15, 2016

Can This Marriage Work?

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continue to strengthen and empower you and your
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Is it advisable to marry a man that is legally divorced with three kids. He has been divorced since 2009 and he is in custody of the kids. He's 45 and am 30. Is there a possibility that this marriage will work. Please advice me

If he has legally divorced his wife, he has every legal right to remarry and seek love in the arms of a lady who is emotionally prepared, spiritually sensitive and psychologically stable to love him and accept his children as her own.
This time you have to look beyond just loving him and also consider the environment which includes his children so that you don't accept him and start putting pressure on him to do away with his children or treat his children as though they were never part of his life.
It's also advisable to discuss with him so that you can agree with him on some sensitive issues like whether he may want more children amongst other things that you maybe afraid of.
It's advisable to make some investigation into what lead to him divorcing his first wife, so that you don't fall into the trap that his first wife escaped from.
Above all, his personality and vision in life is more important than the circumstances surrounding his personality. If you are comfortable and convinced of his personality and you are happy and at peace with him, then you can consider him and prepare your heart to be a great wife to him and a loving mother to his children.

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