Wednesday, January 27, 2016

I'm Dying in Pains!

Good morning beautiful Aunty Amara, there is this handsome guy I met on Facebook last two years he's based in UK but from my state,he told me he wanted a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. I told him we need to see face to face he came down to Nigeria that year, we saw each other but in a hotel. After the next morning he dropped transport far for me and promised coming back to pick me to the park which he never did.
He begged me to forgive him for not coming to pick me that he had visitors,he travelled back, am a doctor working he told me one day to send him one thousand airtime that he wanted to use it and do something, I sent it to him cos I love him, I have never asked this guy for any money. Last year Christmas, he came down to Nigeria and he came to my house in the village but my parents were not around he met my sisters, they all liked him cos he's cute rich and cool.
Can you believe that this guy did not even buy me anything? I begged him to buy laptop for me even the cheapest one cos mine was stolen he didn't, all my sisters were asking what he got for me, I lied to them that he forgot to bring it along. I was the one that begged him to come,when he have not come back he told me that when he comes back again he will come and see my people and tell them that he wanted to marry me (ask for my hands in marriage) and he will take me to his house to see his mum but nothing like that happened.
He travelled back, I told him last week that two persons were asking for my hands in marriage which is true he said wow I should choose one and tell him the date, that is my younger sister he likes that even if he don't marry her that he will hook her up with one of his friends that was ready to marry that he likes how she looks good.
Last night when he called me, we were talking he said that I lied too much, am not straight forward that was why he liked my sister, my sister doesn't know that he likes her. Then he said that was why you can't get married to me, he never said anything good of me only saying negative things about me.
I love this guy and I can't lie to someone I love, he never trusted me when I stopped chatting with him he will start calling please house I need your advice, am in love with him I don't even look at another man's face ever since I met this guy. Right now I want to forget him and move on with my life ,the more I tried the more am hurting myself. I don't think I can love another man if I let go of this guy,(am not too tall or that beautiful, can a handsome man marry a girl he is finer than? I feel so inferior whenever am with him ) and he is a divorcee he said the wife was cheating that was why he doesn't trust girls am 26 and he's 35 years old please help your sister am dying in pain #thanks#


If the London that he travelled to every weekend was as close as Lagos, perhaps I would have believed him but one thing I strongly believe is that he's fake and as fake as fake. Please run away from any man who tells you stories on Facebook and comes around demanding for sex, airtime and the rest.
You need to understand that not all you meet on social media are genuine and honest to avoid losing your life or exposing your family to thieves or wicked individuals. Please be guided and be warned.
There are two major beauty in life, one is the outward beauty which reflects on the outside, the boobs, the hips, the height, the complexion and the texture of your skin, the shortcomings of this beauty is that it fades with time and at the end it's buried in the ground. The second beauty is the inward beauty, it reflects the beauty of your heart, your passion, your purpose, and your personality. It has more to do with who you are and how you view things. This beauty never dies because it's indestructible and it never fades with time but radiates your heart for the rest of your life. This beauty is what you should strive to become and the express all the days of your life.
God never made you inferior so feeling inferior is not of God but of the devil and it is devil's way of crushing every virtue and beauty in you. Please pray that God will destroy every spirit of timidity and give you the grace to stand out and fulfil the purpose for which God has called you on earth.
The earlier you realise that nobody is looking for an inferior person to love but an inferior person to abuse, the better it would be for you to change the perception of yourself and desire the very best in life.
As for the so called relationship, it's a scam and hopeless so please save yourself from the drama and engage in skills and virtues that will make you independent and financially secure as a lady.

14 comments:

  1. That guy is a liar and a very unserious being. It would do you a world of good to see him as he really is. That way you would wake up and stop loving him.

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  2. The guy is fake, not even a card gift. Pls stay away from him and forget about him. You are still young, so repackage yourself and learn to love and appreciate yourself. If you dont love yourself, you might not understand what love is all about.God has made a husband for every woman seeking a husband.

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  3. A 35 would not be playing games when he wants to settle down. This guy shows no seriousness whatsoever towards you, what makes you think that if you marry him, he'll make you happy. Another thing I have that is that, never make excuses for a man. Stop lying to your family they'll advice you better

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  4. HE IS QUITE UNSERIOUS.PLEASE STAY OFF HIM AND A BETTER MAN WILL COME UR WAY,U CAN ACHIEVE THAT BY ALLOWING GOD CHOSE FOR YOU.PLEASE DO NOT BE IN A HASTE URS IS ON D WAY.LEAST I FORGET TELL UR SISTER TO ALSO STAY CLEAR OFF HIM SINCE HE IS ALS0 EYEING UR YOUNGER SIS.GOD BLESS U

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  5. No dear this man is a real fake that its multiply by 100, if u marry this guy u will keep on providing 4 him, and lying to your family. N by lying to people defending is someone, u get no gud result only confusion and being stucked in one place, coz ppl will only advice on wat you tell them. What I will say to you lady- yo Happiness,love, Intergrity, and Respect comes 1st, so I dnt see this man providing you all this to you. Instead he is Liar n selfisness person.

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  6. Nawa oh this guy is from the pit of hell. Learn to love yourself and fulfil that purpose of which you were created and you will see men of high class and responsible being for that matter begging foryour hand in marriage. Take your time bae cos you are only going through infatuation not love.

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  7. The guy must have gotten what he wanted in you the night you met and slept in his hotel (you didn't open up on that because you felt guilty been the first time you met the guy and you think people will criticize you).
    the guy is confirm fake, player, womanizer. he doesn't value or respect you, if you are not careful you will soon become his ATM or he will approach you with a smile and fake love anytime he feel like having a taste of what you carry. it s a pity you fell in love with him because you felt he is handsome and you are ugly. haba!!!! wake up, I m a man and i beleive every woman is beautiful, work on the way you dress, make up, fitted dresses, good hair style, there and then you wil know you are beautiful. i cant even believe a doctor can be talking like this, who even told you short ladies/women are not beautiful? Abeg wake up and leave this maradona guy alone, imagine telling you he like your sister than you and you are still falling in love. which kind love be that.

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  8. Hmmmm Anty,our able Doctor we love you very much,please concentrate on us,and believes you are a beautiful damsel to behold.really as for me too I felt the same way too before I got married 5 years ago but now am enjoying my marriage with 3 wonderful kids, just because I believe I am beautiful and that a man should love me not me loving him,according as bible said it.please study the bible and learn on how to hear from God He will direct you.Thank you and God bless you.amen

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  9. God bless u Amara and what a fantastic one from clement, young lady u have to wake up here, every woman is wonderfully and beautifully made in a very special and unique way so don't ever say u are not beautiful, when we all know u are pretty, all ladies are beautiful but just in different ways, how can i cant say am coming from UK to see a lady i claim to love without even buying her a pencil, Haba... that's wickedness, please forget about him and move on with your life because his a scam, and tell your younger sister the truth as to guide her from such evil men. The Lord is your strength.

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  10. Don't go and kill yourself because of a man.he is not meant for you pls

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  11. Chai!!!!
    That is all I can shout from here. Nne after all d school wey u go become doctor, u dry feel inferior.
    I will slap u multiple times if I set eyes on you.
    1. That guy is not in UK. U Mak have been seeing his pics when he travelled.
    2. He is a FULLY AND HAPPILY married man, that is why he cannot marry ur sister but hook her with his friends.
    U are supposed to bee an intelligent doctor o o . shine ur eyes and see that a comfortable married man PROBABLY BASED IN NAIJA used u!!!

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  12. Chai!!!!
    That is all I can shout from here. Nne after all d school wey u go become doctor, u dry feel inferior.
    I will slap u multiple times if I set eyes on you.
    1. That guy is not in UK. U Mak have been seeing his pics when he travelled.
    2. He is a FULLY AND HAPPILY married man, that is why he cannot marry ur sister but hook her with his friends.
    U are supposed to bee an intelligent doctor o o . shine ur eyes and see that a comfortable married man PROBABLY BASED IN NAIJA used u!!!

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