Friday, January 8, 2016

My Mum Has been Disturbing Me!

Happy new year ma, may God bless you for all your good works. Please I need your advice, I got married traditionally on January 2nd 2016 and I thank God every thing went well but my problem is this my mother asked me to come back home the next day and she has been calling me and my husband make me feel like as if am not married . What do I do?

Kindly plead with your husband to permit you to attend to your mother and find out what the challenge could be or what her suggestions could be.
Understandably, your mum maybe provoking you at the moment but please do not paint your mother in a bad image or give your husband the impression that your mother is a monster.
Manage this as an adult, when you get home, listen to her and find out what her views are, then you may need to clarify her on your decision and suggest that she allow you to decide what's best for you and your husband. In all fairness, you are already married and even if you don't have enough money for a huge wedding, you may go for the the blessing of marriage or a mini wedding and enter your home without stress and gossip from any quarters.
Congratulations on your successful wedding, praying for a prosperous, fruitful and favourable marital journey in Jesus name Amen.

6 comments:

  1. Best advice you got already. Go and find out why she has been calling you to come. Afterwards, you can decide what to do from whatever you found out.

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  2. My dear don't complain just quickly run to your mum and go and answer her. People that have their mum don't know the value. I just wish I can have my own mum back......Crying.

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  3. Ask your husband for some time to go answer your mum. Understand and know why she wants you back and make thoughtful decisions with your husband. Happy married life.

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  4. Wat evryone has said is very true go home and find out y ur mama wants u b4 concluding. HML to u hoping to join u soon in d ministry.

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  5. Maybe Ur mum is trying to adjust to the reality that her daughter is married.
    I went tru the same after my wedding my mum call me 2ce a day to check on me.she will ask if am awake.cook for hubby clean.it was funny cuz I was once a spoilt last born.
    Dear sis. Don't take offence she misses u

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  6. Maybe Ur mum is trying to adjust to the reality that her daughter is married.
    I went tru the same after my wedding my mum call me 2ce a day to check on me.she will ask if am awake.cook for hubby clean.it was funny cuz I was once a spoilt last born.
    Dear sis. Don't take offence she misses u

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