Thursday, January 12, 2017

My Fiancée is Seeing Another Man!

Good morning madam, I need your urgent advice. There is a lady am engaged to and our wedding is this year, but I have a challenge. She is presently seeing a man who came from US to buy a land,
this man is her ex which she says she is no more interested in him and just to go see him because of the land he wants to buy.
For this reason she can't attend the counselling we had started because the man is a pastor and she now attends the man's church every Sunday. This man on the other hand said he wants her as his wife.
Madam please help me because I don't want to make a decision that I'll regret tomorrow. Please alert me when you reply. Thanks and God bless.

I will suggest that you have a heart to heart discussion with your fiancé, if possible pause further marriage preparations or counselling to enable her figure out who she wish to settle with. 
She's a bit confused and the greatest mistake you will make is to settle down with a confused lady. 
If she wishes to go to the pastor, let her be, don't force yourself on her or get depressed, but allow God to perfect that which he has already promised to you. 
Whatever becomes the outcome, I believe that God is on the throne and will give you a woman of your heart desire.


  1. The heart of man is desperately wicked and who can know it?,please don't fall for any deception of hers,she might still be claiming she loves you after one on discussion.Keep calm,i trust God to settle you properly but please don't rush taking any major decision.Thanks.

  2. WOW!!!
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    Hey guys my wife and I have been married for 15 years. For over five years I have been dealing with jealousy issues because of flirting and her having emotional type affairs with other men. I felt like my masculinity was in question and if I said the way she was acting bothered me, it seemed to make matters worse or I was accused of being controling. During this period I did state I wanted a divorce if the behavior was not going to end: texting men a night, leaving for the weekend without letting me know where she was going or not responding to messages. We do have a son and basically it's been him and I for the last year on the weekends. She disconnected completely from being a good wife and mother. In April she said she wanted a separation and I said no we need to get into marriage counseling. We did try that, but she was not very responsive and didn't give any effort. Afterward she was adamant about separation and divorce. I continued to say no and that we needed to save our family. She presented a separation agreement and I had to hire a lawyer. Because of the above behavior my lawyer suggested a private investigator. The investigator discovered my wife was having an affair with a close friend of the family who also is married with children. We know the extended families. I feel like I should tell this man's wife about what happened. This adultery has devastated me emotionally, I feel betrayed and I'm physically drained. I know my wife is passionate in terms of her sexuality, and I can't get the thought of them out of my head. It makes me question my own manhood, and I feel very inferior or that he must be a better lover or what ever. The problem is my wife pursued him. She would go to him and she lured him into this adultery. I felt this was coming for some time and could not stop it. She was not only lying to me but also to our son about what she was doing and where she was going. My family is important, my son loves her and as crazy as it sounds so do I. Can you respond with a course of action on how to proceed? I was still have a very huge place in my heart for her. so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Ahmed can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 28 hours later, my wife came to me and apologized for the wrongs she did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I, my son and my wife are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Ahmed. as it is a place to resolve marriage/relationship issues, do you want to be sure if your spouse is being faithful to you or Do you want your Ex to come back to you Contact.: E-mail: or call/Whats-app: +2348160153829 save your crumbling home and change of grades its 100% safe. I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you.
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