Thursday, May 4, 2017

Isn't He in a Hurry?

Aunty Amara good evening,  I've been a follower of your page for a while now and thought I should write in for support.
I'm 23 years and he's 34, we just met and it isn't upto a month but he's been talking about marriage.
I've told him I'm not ready because I want to go for service, finish up and settle down before thinking of marriage.
Is my decision really right? Or I should go on and accept his proposal? 

Marriage is a joint decision that involves two separate individuals who need to be financially, mentally, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually prepared to build a home with wisdom, commitment, and selfless devotion. 
If you are not prepared for marriage, you will end up getting crushed by marrying a man when you are not ready for the responsibilities and duties that comes with marriage. 
You are in the best position to know what's best for you at this point in your life. Perhaps he should give you some time to learn and understand his personality and vision before venturing into marriage. 
There is a need to build your friendship and understand your individual differences, before considering marriage proposals. 
If you are not comfortable with his proposal, please don't accept it under pressure or diuress. 

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