Monday, July 17, 2017

His Phone Breaks my Heart!

Aunty Amara, please I need your advice on this because I'm really depressed and don't know what to do again.
My husband keeps calling his ex on daily basis,
and he chats with her on Facebook and Whatsapp.
Apart from that, he chat with girls on Facebook and it's always an intimate text about sex and all that.
So anytime I go through his phone, it really breaks my heart and the worst is that he doesn't care how I feel about it. 
Please Aunty Amara I need your advice on this.

I don't know if you have talked to him about this, but I will suggest that you sit down with him and iron this out. 
If your husband loves you, he wouldn't deliberately decide to make marriage miserable to you by constantly and carelessly doing those things that hurts and breaks your heart. 
And should he continue with such attitude, it will only be safe for you to consider engaging with his family to find a lasting solution to his infidelity. 
To help you, I will suggest that you minimize your rate of checking his phone, not because you don't have the right to but to help you have some sanity and happiness in yourself. 
Most times whenever you read the chat of a cheating partner, you are crushing your self esteem, provoking yourself unnecessarily, and always living in fear of what you will discover in his phone. 
If after exploring all available options to address this issue he's unable to make amends, you may then decide whether you wish to continue with him or consider separating from him.

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