Thursday, September 28, 2017

Should I Wait or Take a Walk?

I want to say a big thank you to you for all your advice and inspirations. Please I need your advice....
I'm 29 years old, and in relationship with a man of 35 years old. We've been dating for close to a year now, and he doesn't talk about marriage. Anytime I bring up such issue, he will tell me that I should wait for money to enter his hand. Even when the money comes, he doesn't make any move.
Sometimes he will tell me that he's taking his time cos of his past relationships(as in being hurt). I forgot to say that he has introduced me to his mom and he doesn't know any one in my family.
Please what should I do ma? Cos I feel this guy is wasting my time. He begs me to stay anytime I tell him that I want to take a walk. Thanks and God bless you ma.


If you feel that he's wasting your time, and he begs you to stay, ask him in clear terms what his timeline and plan is with respect to the relationship. 
A relationship without timeline or purpose will most definitely end up as a wasteful experience. 
It's either that the relationship is defined or that you take a walk out of the relationship. Never remain with a man out of pity, you will most likely be frustrated by his attitude to the relationship.

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  3. I think you should really confess all of your fear to your man. But, you know, in victim mode, rather in business mode. When you grow older, relationships become rather practical, than romantically. And you should sincerely tell your man what you want, listen to what he wants and if his story isn't good for you - tell him goodbye. If you will be feeling bad afterwards - just visit ThePensters

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