Should I Terminate the Relationship Because of Her Pride?

Good afternoon ma, please I really need your advice now. I have dated my girlfriend for three year now, and she is the type of person that feels too big

What Should I Do to Save our Relationship of Three Years?

May God bless you immensely. Aunty please, I had a misunderstanding two weeks ago with my boo. The cause of the misunderstanding was that I had always suspected him of cheating on me because of his  nonchalant attitude towards me

I'm Tired of Apologising to Him!

Aunty Good morning ma, I am the lady that posted about how to separate my husband from his mistress(Read Here), they have finally separated but in a wrong way. Sorry for the long write up.

How Do I Apologise for Leaving Him?

Good evening ma, I really appreciate the good work you are doing. Please, I don't know how to handle this challenge.
I was introduced to a guy-A last three years through my priest's wife for marriage, who is the sister to the guy.

Should I Apologise and Submit or Move On?

Hi Amara, it's been a while. I have been good. I just have something bothering me about a relationship I just left. I want to be sure I'm doing the right thing here.

I met this guy through a friend of mine about a year ago. We started dating in August, and I remember the first time I met him, I was not physically attracted to him, but I thought my feelings will catch up with me.

Letter to Single Ladies

This is to you girlfriend: Please help yourself by doing everything you can to keep that look of disappointment off your face. I know your age mates are all married. I know your colleagues get married every Saturday. I know we need men as much as they need us. I know your mother wakes you up every morning with, " my daughter, is there no one yet?" I know you are bothered about menopause and childbearing. 

But I want you to be happy at all times. Some unmarried  ladies are not attractive,not because they are not beautiful; they are not attractive because when people look at them all they see is pain and disappointment. What has happened to that positive vibe you were known for? What has happened to the face that brought hope to others? Why have you allowed yourself to age prematurely just because there is no man yet? Your look and the glory that has left your face could be all you need to get a man hooked. 

 A good number of single women live in perpetual bitterness and depression. Many of them sleep and wake up in hatred for their fellow lady simply because they cant understand why it should be her and why God should be loving and blessing her. I really do understand your frustration. But there's no reason good enough to justify this wrong. If you love good, you will have good in your life. We all have our times and seasons in life, never pray for yours to come before God's time because that would mean pain. 

 Do you stop wanting to be married? Do you stop waiting for your husband? Well, of course not. Desiring to be married is never the problem. How you allow the lack of a husband to hold you back from the other blessings that God has for you is the problem. Too busy sulking and longing and not enough time considering that God was elevating your life in so many other ways. Why invest so much of your time and emotion into something that is not yet? I  know how badly you want to be happy with your life, but you are missing the forest for the trees.

Stop deceiving yourself by believing you must sleep with every Tom, Dick, and Harry to get them to marry you. Stop throwing yourself at men just at the sound of "I will marry you"; a good number of them only want to go in between your legs. They won't marry you; they can only use and dump you. Because men have seen high level of desperation among the sisters, they now feel they can enjoy themselves as they like just by using the word, 'I want to marry you'.

Some of them are genuine and they mean whatever they say to you, but he also understands that it's not just about good sex and beautiful figure; he knows that marriage is serious business and must be entered with eyes wide open. He wants to see a woman with great vision who will give him the necessary push he needs to become great. He needs a woman who can discuss business and issues with him, not just sex, movies, holidays, and shopping. He wants a woman who fears God because she will be his backbone and pillar. Even in their madness, men still love having a very godly woman for marriage. He wants a woman who will be a mother and raise godly seeds. He wants a woman who will be busy building lives and working with her hands, not busy destroying with her mouth. He wants a woman, not a girl.

Stop running away with

My Partner Hardly Apologises.

Hello ma
Good day to you. I commend you for the role you play in securing and establishing relationships. God bless you.
This isn't my account ma...but I believe you can give me advice on how best to manage my beautiful relationship of three years with my husband to be.