Showing posts with label Infidelity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Infidelity. Show all posts

Sunday, August 19, 2018

I'm Heartbroken and Confused; Help Me!

Dear sister Amara, thanks for doing a great job, please I'll like to seek for your advice. 
There's this guy I dated back in 2013, we loved each other so much but we broke up because he's a military personnel and my parents felt they usually don't have time for their wives, so I got married in 2015 and left the abusive marriage in 2017.
Somehow fate brought us back with the military guy, and I was asking why he hasn't gotten married after our break-up but his excuse was that he hasn't gotten someone befitting to be called a wife.

Sunday, August 5, 2018

A Strange Lady Wants to Destroy my Marriage!

Good day aunty Amara.. please I need your advice on an issue that has been bothering my mind.
I got married three years ago and ever since then it's been one problem or another-from infidelity to domestic abuse.
My husband can sleep with anything in skirt, he engages in sexchat, phone sex, physical sex with different ladies, masturbation..

Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Hubby Treats me like a Stranger!

Good day ma, you are really doing a wonderful job, may God continue to bless you.
My hubby is making my life miserable by maltreating me. My marriage is going to two years now and I have a nine-months-old-baby.
There is this lady in my church that recently joined us,

Wednesday, April 25, 2018

What is my Self-worth in His Life?

I am finding it hard knowing my self worth. I am 25 years old, married with a child. My husband and I stay apart because of his job.

All throughout my three years and five months of being married to my husband, it has been hellish.. Ranging from abuse from his family and from him. No physical abuse though but the mental torture and emotional blackmail I have endured in these years have really had its tow on me.

Monday, April 2, 2018

How Do I Liberate myself from Emotional Trauma in my Marriage?

Greetings ma, please I need your soul consoling advice.
I am a 25 years old lady married to a military man, I have been battling this case of infidelity since I married him for two years now.
I have applied all the tactics I know both involving his elder brother but

Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Is it Difficult for a Lair to Cheat?

Hi Mum, I am a mom of 2.5 year old boy and married. I need your advise.
My husband likes telling lies, nothing of his promises gets fulfilled. I am worried that if he is telling lies is it difficult for him to cheat?
Our bedroom matters has changed drastically.

Sunday, February 25, 2018

Is Calling Off the Marriage the Right Decision?

Good evening Aunty, sorry for disturbing you this time. I really need your advice ma, it's a bit long, please bear with me.
I wrote to you sometime last year and your advice helped me a lot. Ma, I gave my boyfriend a second chance because he came begging, claiming he is a changed person.

Thursday, February 8, 2018

I Saw Nude Pictures of a Lady on Hubby's Phone.

Aunty Amara, please I need you to talk to me here. My marriage will be two years in three months time, and I couldn't believe what I saw in my husband's phone.
I noticed a particular number always calling him, but whenever I am with him he doesn't pick.

Saturday, February 3, 2018

Should I Confess to my Wife?

Good morning ma, please I need an advice.
I am a married man. I had never slept with another woman except my wife until last week.
My company is rendering a project management services for a Nigerian bank, and there is lady that interfaces with me on the job.
She is so beautiful and always look well put together. She has a very big bust.

Tuesday, December 12, 2017

How Did I Offend my Husband?

Good morning ma. I saw your post about ladies going after married men, it was as if you posted on my behalf because I found out my husband is cheating on me and I couldn't sleep throughout the night.
I have been thinking how I did wrong, my husband based outside the country and he comes home only Christmas period.

Saturday, July 22, 2017

Should an Obese Wife be Blamed for Her Husband's Infidelity?

Hello ma'am,  I have gained a lot from your platform God bless you. Please I just want to clear my mind on an issue.
My husband thinks an obese wife is to blame for her husband cheating on her.

Monday, May 22, 2017

I'm Losing My Marriage to Infidelity!

Good day Aunty Amara, may God bless you and your family richly. Your words and encouragement has been my inspiration, may God bless you amen.
Please I am in a marriage of six years now and ever since I married my hubby, I have never trusted him, he's been a very nice and caring husband and father to me and the kids.

Friday, April 28, 2017

I'm Tired of Apologising to Him!

Aunty Good morning ma, I am the lady that posted about how to separate my husband from his mistress(Read Here), they have finally separated but in a wrong way. Sorry for the long write up.

Friday, October 14, 2016

How Will I Love Him With The Stigma of Betrayal?

Good day big sister, may God bless you on how you have been touching and changing lives, please ma I need your advice and that of my fellow fans on this issue that has been affecting my peace... 
My marriage is four years plus but recently I found out that my husband has been cheating on me with his ex, through my investigation I got to know that the lady in question is married with kids

Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Does My Husband Run Women's Ministry?

Good morning Aunty Amara, please I need your advice. I have been married for three years to the man I love and my best friend. We love each other and he has been doing his duty as a husband and a father as we presently have a daughter. I support with the little I have cos I work from home.
I joined him seven months after we got married and found out he had some female friends he was always in contact with almost on a daily basis.

Tuesday, September 13, 2016

Don't Want To Believe That He's Cheating On Me.

Good evening ma, please ma I need your sincere advice. Sometime ago, I noticed my husband chats with ladies on Facebook. It's either he admires them, compliment them and he once sent his picture to a particular lady, he alone knows his reasons. Sometimes he deletes the messages before I see them, sometimes I see them before he deletes.

How Do I Handle This Girl?

Good evening ma, please I need your advice on this, my husband cheated once on me. Just the other day, his ex who had a baby for him called and said that she wants them back. Though my hubby blocked her number after the call, but my problem is that am struggling to build trust again in marriage,

Monday, September 12, 2016

My Husband Clubs, Drinks, and Keep Late Night.

Good morning ma, I think God is using you to put joy in people's home and am here to receive mine too, remain blessed ma. 
It all happened like this, I dated my husband for good four years before marriage, then my husband used to receive calls from different girls and when I ask, he will tell me that it is his classmates that is calling him not knowing that he's going out with them. 

Saturday, September 10, 2016

My Husband Impregnated Another Woman.

Hi Aunty Amara, honestly I must commend you for a great job that you have been doing and matters you have been addressing, God bless you ma. Please I need your advice on what to do as am not concentrating anymore.
Am married to my husband, we did our traditional and court wedding, yet to do white wedding.

Friday, September 9, 2016

I Regret Why I Got Married!

Good day sister. More grease to your elbow. Hmmmm where do I start from? My story is very long but I will try and make it short. Really am fade up and right now I don't mind quitting. How can I continue to pray for a man that hurts me over and over again.
Have been married since 2012 with two lovely kids a boy and girl, and they are the best thing that has ever happened to me.
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