Showing posts with label cheat. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cheat. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

How Do I Leave Him with my Children?

Hi Amara good morning please I need your advice. This June will make it ten years of marriage with three girls and, presently five months pregnant.
My issue with my husband is that he doesn't respect me, uses a small oppportunity to insult me and call me names. I have endured this emotional abuse for long although he hasn't laid his hand on me, but what I go through emotionally is too much for me now to bear.

Wednesday, April 25, 2018

What is my Self-worth in His Life?

I am finding it hard knowing my self worth. I am 25 years old, married with a child. My husband and I stay apart because of his job.

All throughout my three years and five months of being married to my husband, it has been hellish.. Ranging from abuse from his family and from him. No physical abuse though but the mental torture and emotional blackmail I have endured in these years have really had its tow on me.

Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Is it Difficult for a Lair to Cheat?

Hi Mum, I am a mom of 2.5 year old boy and married. I need your advise.
My husband likes telling lies, nothing of his promises gets fulfilled. I am worried that if he is telling lies is it difficult for him to cheat?
Our bedroom matters has changed drastically.

Sunday, February 25, 2018

Is Calling Off the Marriage the Right Decision?

Good evening Aunty, sorry for disturbing you this time. I really need your advice ma, it's a bit long, please bear with me.
I wrote to you sometime last year and your advice helped me a lot. Ma, I gave my boyfriend a second chance because he came begging, claiming he is a changed person.

Thursday, November 16, 2017

Who Should I Consider Amongst These Men?

Good afternoon ma.
I so much appreciate your good works, I have really learnt a lot from this platform.
Please I need your advise, I am confused on what to do.
I am in a relationship with someone I love  so much. He is a PA to one politician but another man is coming for my hand in marriage..

Thursday, October 26, 2017

How Do I Address this 'Friendship'?

Good day ma. Thank you for affecting lives in several beautiful ways. Please I need your advice.
I got married last year and wedded early this year. My hubby has this colleague of his who he told me they are just friends. The lady calls him anytime and they talk for hours.

Wednesday, October 18, 2017

I'm Dying, Will He Dump Me?

Good morning ma, I have been following you up here seeing how the Lord is using you. Please ma post my story cos I am really in a mess right now.
I have been dating this man for five years now and all these while, we have been happy staying together.

Have I Been Fooled for Four Years?

Good day ma, thank you for healing broken hearts with your words... 
I got married four years ago, and two years ago, I noticed that my hubby keeps contacting his ex(his recent ex before we got married).

Sunday, October 15, 2017

We Agreed to get Married by December but I'm Confused!

Hi aunty Amara, I  have been following your forum for long now. God bless you a lot.  Please I am having issues in my relationship lately.
I started dating my guy 2015 February and he's based abroad but he does come back to stay with his family and me.

Wednesday, September 27, 2017

Should I Revenge by Exposing my Ex's Relationship?

Good morning Aunty Amara. There is this guy I just broke up with because I found out that hes a chronic cheat. He sleeps with both married and single women. He has been dating this pastor lady who is married to a pastor of a big church in my state.

Tuesday, August 22, 2017

How Do I Confront Him with these Screenshot?

Hi Aunty AMY,

My problem goes thus .
I have a man I love dearly.
He means the world to me and am quite sure he feels the same for me.

There's this lady he always chat with.
He claimed the lady is really into him while he feels nothing for her (They are just friends).

Sunday, July 30, 2017

Hubby Constantly Communicates with his Ex!

Aunty Amara, please I need your advice on this because I'm really depressed and don't know what to do again.
My husband keeps calling his ex on every daily basis, and he chats with her on Facebook and Whatsapp.

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

I See Him as a Big Lair!

Good morning ma'am,
Thank you so much for what you have been doing. The story I want to share goes like this.
I met my fiancé, he got me engaged. He always said...'he couldn't stand a woman who will cheat and all that', I told him same thing that it was a deal breaker for me.
He then asked if I had a forgiving spirit, I said 'yes' and asked the reason behind the question, and he started narrating how his mother was soooo forgiving and he didn't want to end up with someone who will maltreat him for any little thing he did to her. Then...I took it for that.

Sunday, July 16, 2017

How Should I Handle this 'Cousin' of His?

Good evening sister Amara. I thank God for what he has been doing through you. I have been following you for more than three years now, please  l need godly counsel.
I am married for close to seven years now, though it has been a distant marriage but I finally joined my husband few months ago. My husband has a female cousin who is very close to him, he even told me how close they were when we were dating. But on joining my husband, I realised they relate almost like real lovers.

Monday, June 19, 2017

Will He be Faithful After Wedding?

Good day ma, I have a boyfriend that proposed marriage to me in December 2012. I told him that we should have some time to pray over it and to know ourselves better because he proposed after some months of meeting him.
In the process of studying him, every time he will post picture of a lady on Facebook,

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

I Feel so Hurt and Cheated!

Good evening ma, may the good Lord reward your kind deeds. Please advice me on this.
I had this guy from my town, he is 39 but single, he had a child with his ex, though he said they were not married.

Sunday, June 11, 2017

What Should I Do to Satisfy Him in Bed?

Good day Aunty Amara, and may God keep uplifting you in Jesus name amen. Aunty please all these men complaining that their wives are not good in bed, what are they really looking for?

Tuesday, May 16, 2017

I Feel Manipulated into This Marriage!

Good afternoon ma, may God bless you for the good work you have been doing in the lives of people, may God bless you.
This is my first time of writing to you but please bear with me because my write up may be lengthy and please I need your advice.
I'm 27 and my husband is 38. I met him around April

Tuesday, May 9, 2017

How Do I Confront Him?

Good afternoon ma, please I need your help... I have a serious date recently I decided to check his chat cos he has been behaving strange...

Wednesday, May 3, 2017

Am I Dreaming?

Good day sister, I'm P**. I got married to my husband nine years ago, and the marriage was blessed with three lovely kids. It all started three years ago when things weren't rossy as it's used to be and I told my husband that it is better we relocate from Abuja to Osogbo where things are not that expensive.
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