Showing posts with label Pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pregnancy. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

I'm Dying of Depression!

Ma'am please I need your advice.... I am at my 32 years old now. In 2016, I got a new job which took me to a very popular city in Nigeria. I stayed with my aunt but after one month of my stay there, I was pleaded by my aunty to introduce me to a guy that was asking her to connect me to his friend that is in search if a wife.
At first I refused because I knew what I was looking for in a man, but later excepted to go on a date with them and I met the man I was introduced to and we both liked ourselves. The next day he asked me out just, the two of us, which I accepted and that was when he told me that he was once married and how badly the lady treated him, and the marriage lasted for just a year before the lady and her family returned her bride price....

I noticed how heartbroken he has been and I decided to love him and make him forget everything.... We talked about our past relationships and I told him I wasn't in any relationship at that time; and that was the honest truth..but he told me after his marriage broke-up that he only sleep with ladies and pay them off, and one lady among the runs girls they use to bring for him was the one he thinks is a nice person, then he asked her to stay with him so he can take care of her.
I asked him why didn't he want to marry her, and he said the way they met and they didn't agree to marry and they were not together anymore..... I accepted

Monday, April 23, 2018

Am I Overreacting or Wasting my Time with Him?

Good day ma.
Please I need your sincere advice on this to know if I'm being patient or wasting my time.
Been married for five years plus now, and no child because my hubby has a low sperm count which he last treated medically

Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Ever since I got Pregnant, He's been Acting Weird to Me!

Good evening ma, I met my boyfriend in December and we started dating in January. I just found out that I am pregnant for him and he insists that I terminate the pregnancy. I told him I won't want to subject myself to such,

Monday, March 5, 2018

I'm Drowning in my Marriage!

Happy new year ma.. it's been a long time.. Trust your family is well... I'm really trouubled!

Good afternoon ma, I'm pregnant with my third baby, started service February. Due to the financial situation in the past two to three years, a lot has gone wrong.

I have had to follow him to several churches for prayers and delieverance just to support him,

Sunday, February 25, 2018

Is Calling Off the Marriage the Right Decision?

Good evening Aunty, sorry for disturbing you this time. I really need your advice ma, it's a bit long, please bear with me.
I wrote to you sometime last year and your advice helped me a lot. Ma, I gave my boyfriend a second chance because he came begging, claiming he is a changed person.

Monday, February 12, 2018

Should I Inform Suitors About my Pregnancy?

Happy weekend ma'am. The Lord will continue to strengthen you.
Please ma, I met this guy ending of last two years, he was nice and responsible so I had to date him, added to the fact that I was recovering from a broken relationship.
During the period of being with him, I asked him severally if he had a serious date but his responses were 'No''

Thursday, February 8, 2018

How Do I Get Hubby to Talk to Me?

Sister, good day! Hope you are fine. I just need someone to talk to because I am scared and confused.
I took in recently, and my husband warned that I should not disclose to anyone yet. I agreed and haven't, until recently my mum called.

Sunday, January 28, 2018

All I Think of now is Suicide!

Aunty Amara good morning, please ma, post my story, I sincerely need your advice ma.
Ma, please, the only thing on my mind now is committing suicide. Ma, my heart is really heavy, I only cry whenever am alone, and I've prayed, I've cried.

Friday, January 26, 2018

How Do I Claim Custody of my Child Without any Drama?

Good morning ma, please there is something bothering me.
There is this girl I was dating and she took in for me and we were going on very well, but on the 24th of December 2017, she told me she was going for Christmas in her village, and she will be coming back the next day which she never did.

Thursday, January 4, 2018

What Should I Do to Conceive for Him?

Good morning ma, please I need your advice. I have been dating this guy for the past eight months, and he is serious with me and wants to marry me, but the problem is his mom

Monday, November 20, 2017

What Should I Do to this Pregnancy?

Good afternoon ma, I have been following you for a long time now and I know that God is using you to reach out to a lot of people.
I am a single mom of daughter who is 6 years now. And I am in a relationship with a guy for four years now, and last year he started talking marriage and we went to see his family members including the mom, and I was well accepted or so I thought.

Monday, September 11, 2017

I am Happy and Confused with my Pregnancy!

Good evening Amara, my hubby and his dad took me back to my parents December. It's because I fought hubby and his dad said we were not living in peace that I should go and stay with my parents for a while. When I was with him, his sisters humiliated me even his mum beat me, but I endured cos I came from a poor background.

Monday, August 21, 2017

Should I Abort the Baby?

Good evening Mummy, ma my heart is so heavy and am so sad. I met a man around January and he asked me to be in a relationship with him.
After some months, we went for an all round  medical test which included HIV status.

Tuesday, August 15, 2017

Should I Abort Since He Doesn't Need the Baby?

Good afternoon ma'am, I'm a lady of 31 years and would say life hasn't been easy for me. I lost my parents at very tender age and it was by the grace of God I was able to finish university, but I'm having issues, due to that my result is not ready.
I've had series of disappointment in terms of relationships so I decided to give up on it. Earlier this year, I met a man who's a divorcee and he carried the Bible to swear that he doesn't have anyone.

Tuesday, August 8, 2017

He Denied my Pregnancy!

Am a girl of 24 years, a student in one of the Nigerian polytechnic. I met a guy of 30 years of age in April this year where I went to do my industrial training and we started dating, and he's nice and caring.

Monday, July 3, 2017

Am I Really A Beast?

Good day ma,  my girlfriend left me to marry last two months. Few days to her marriage to a man she claimed she never loved, she realized that she was pregnant for me. I told her to come back to me and cancel the wedding,

Saturday, June 24, 2017

My Parents Insist on Buoyant Wedding!

Good evening aunty Amy. I really need your advice and that of your fans.
I am 25 years while my fiance is 29, we've been dating for three years. I found out that am four months pregnant and I informed my parent about it.

Wednesday, May 17, 2017

Should I Give Him some Time or Move On?

Good afternoon ma, may Almighty God bless you for the good work you have been doing in peoples lives. Ma my story is a bit lenghty, please I need an advice from you and your followers, thank you.
I met my boyfriend in 2014 when I was serving,

Friday, May 12, 2017

Should I Keep my Baby after Delivery?

Good morning ma. Please am just disturbed about an issue that is bordering me. I met this guy three months ago and we got started, though he told me he has a wife. Along the way I took in for him.

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

What He Told Me Scares Me.

Good evening ma, happy new year.. God bless you ma for all you have been doing in our lives, the impartation is too much, we love you so much ma and only God will bless you.
Ma, I have this friend of mine working in a company but he is complaining that he is not earning much from there.
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