Dear sender,
You cannot be dating two men and not be confused of who to marry. If you knew so well that you never wanted to have anything to do with an uneducated man, why give him the impression that you love him and allow him to invest five years of his life with you.
That was sincerely insensitive and selfish for you to deceive this young man all because he was not "well educated" like you were.
Since you feel that the man you wanted has come, I would suggest that you tell the other man that you are not proud of him or put it mildly that it won't work between you two so that he can meet the lady who truly cherish him for who he is.
But I must remind you that there is more to marriage than marrying an educated parrnef
You do not need education to be happy with a partner.
You do not need education to be responsible and committed to marriage.
You do not need education to enjoy a fruitful and fulfilling marriage.
Rather you need a partner who understands the rudiments, essence purpose and the commitment to make marriage succeed.
When you meet such a man, you won't worry whether he is educated or not.
Please pray and ask the Holy spirit to direct your path, only then will you know who truly will truly give you peace and happiness in your home.
It's a matter of time, you will realize who is the victim of deceit. What you wouldn't want anyone to do to you don't do it to others. You've been 'married' to the guy for five years only for you to wake up from your sleep and realized that he was hold in-view for the Mr. Right. If God does not forgive you for ruining that man's life for five years, you shall return to this page again. Whether you are happy about my observation or not, it doesn't matter. I must be truthful to you. Accept the first guy's proposal and tell the second guy off. Whatever you are today is courtesy of the first guy.
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