Saturday, August 8, 2015

Dear Amara, please help me post as soon as possible.
Please how many times can a husband and wife have sex in a week?
Cos mine is giving me headache,there's no how I have never talked to my wife about it but she keep on choosing the days we will have sex and am the type that have high sex libido which I have told her many times.
And it will not give me joy if I get it else where.
Its not even that she has come of age.
She's 25 and am 36.
Please I need an advice from you and your fans.
Thank you!!!

Dear sender, 
There's no regimen or planned table on how many times or how they should appreciate one another in sexual intimacy.
However, there are lots of factors that may either make a lady not to desire love making with her husband which would make her to choose days to meet with you. 
Yes, she may not have come of age but she could be affected by stress, your personal hygiene, and the way you treat her.
Dear husband, how many times have you helped out your wife to take care of somethings at home?  
How many times did you care to help with the dishes, clean the house, or take care of your children?
How many times have you gone for shopping with your wife and help her carry some heavy items? 
How many times did you follow her to go make her hair, provide for her to look her best, or even surprise her by preparing a meal for her? 
You see, sex for a lady is not automatic, you need to patiently and gently arouse her to always respond to you when you touch her. And that arousal is determined by the atmosphere of the home from dawn till dusk.
When you make love to your wife, how well do you communicate your feelings to her? Do you use on her, the kind of words men use on prostitutes? 
How do you get her to be sexually satisfied? Has she ever experienced orgasm or does she constantly complain of pains? 
Do you just go in there and pour your hot cement on her body or do you take your time to wake up all her sensors? 
How well do you appreciate your wife.?
When last did you send her sweet loving gifts, messages, or compliments. 
When last did you notice that her panties may be loose on her and lovingly suggested to buy her something lovelier? When last did you shop for her underwear?
When last did you surprise her with something she never expected or are you the kind of a husband who just wake up and you are like "oya mama Emeka, open let me enter" 
Or something like I am waiting for you in the room; please be fast about that? 
You need to get her to enjoy sex, only then can she meet up with your desire and appetite for sex. 
Take some time and ask her how beautiful sex has been for you and her. 
Please do not interfere but simply listen to her views. 
Ask her what needs to be done for your sex life can be improved. 
Encourage her to open up and don't make her look or feel like a sex object to you. 
Appreciate her and try to experiment with new positions, prolonged foreplay (very important to women), and beautiful love making. 
Encourage her to be in charge and do not fail to always find out how much she enjoyed every session. 
You shouldn't even think of going outside because you have a great sex expert in your wife, all she needs is your lovely skills and fantasy to open her world to the beauty of love making. 
Never Forget: Any woman can give you good sex when it's occasional; the very moment she becomes your wife, you must work on her psychology daily to keep her hot for you. Men who understand this simple task always enjoy their sex life. 
All the best dear. 

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