Thursday, September 3, 2015

Tried Everything Possible, Yet No Luck!

Aunty Amara may God bless you for your good works and the consolation you brought to many dying souls.
Pls help me post this...I've been married for more than seven months now still trying to conceive.
It breaks my heart so much because all through my teenage till I met my husband ( am 23) ,I'd never been impregnated let alone aborting a pregnancy so why me?
Even in my wildest dreams I wouldn't believe I can be infertile.
Being a science student, I have tried everything possible to conceive yet no luck.
The worst is that am gradually loosing my ovulation.
Please someone should help advice me on what to do.
Thanks and God bless you.

What science told you was that once you are ovulating and you sleep with a man, pregnancy will be the end result. But what I have come to understand in life is that children do not come from science but from God and it is not a function of how you may have lived in the past but a function of God's blessings and favour upon your family. 
My prayers is that God will open your womb and bless you with children of your own in Jesus name Amen. 
Having said that, I want you to know that it takes two to achieve conception. 
If your egg is healthy and your system is free of any infections, it doesn't automatically mean that you will be pregnant immediately after sleeping with your husband, you also need to consider the viability of his sperm to know how healthy it is. 
A man with a low sperm count or watery sperm cannot impregnate an ovulating wife irrespective of how may bottles he might have deposited inside your body. 
Just as you have done your medical examination, he also needs to examine his sperm quality and ascertain the sperm counts so that both of you will be cleared medically of anything that may hinder you from conceiving your children. 
At seven months of marriage, you ought to be enjoying your honeymoon and not to be complaining about not being pregnant. 
You need to lunch your body and enjoy sex to the fullest as you so desire. With the level of tension and fears in you, it will be difficult for you to conceive because the hormones wouldn't be stable to allow the implant of your baby. 
Please relax your mind and enjoy your honeymoon, pregnancy is what happened when uyou were busy enjoying your husband without worries of when you are ovulating and when you will take in. 
Please take your time and make love passionately and constantly with your husband, practice varying positions as much as is comfortable for you,open your mind and give your husband the reason why he should always report to you when he's hungry, hurting or angry. 
Do not get too worried that you forget that children belongs to God and they are his reward to those who he loves. 
I am already praying for you and I believe God that He will perfect work which He has begun in your marriage in Jesus name Amen. 


4 comments:

  1. Please,stop stressing yourself. Even medical science says you should wait till after ONE(1) FULL YEAR OF CONSTANT UNPROTECTED SEX WITH YOUR HUSBAND. Why did you get married,and who are you trying to impress? This performance pressure is not healthy for your conception. Children are not the primary purpose for marriage.....,and by the way,He(Jesus) has paid the price for your fertility. So,relax and rest in His finished works,and enjoy your husband and marriage,and go on and have your children. And,even if your husband has a problem,it can be fixed. Make the needed re-adjustments first.

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  2. My dear post is too early for u to tink dat you are infertile besides u r still very young, just relax and enjoy ur marriage God wil surprise you soon, don't rush him our ways aren't his, he wil visit you soon do ur prayers n leave d rest for him. Don't rush God, gud luck.

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  3. My dear post is too early for u to tink dat you are infertile besides u r still very young, just relax and enjoy ur marriage God wil surprise you soon, don't rush him our ways aren't his, he wil visit you soon do ur prayers n leave d rest for him. Don't rush God, gud luck.

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  4. Too early to worry. It took me 6 months after our wedding. Besides I never worried. All d best

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