Wednesday, October 21, 2015

He Always Demand Money from Me!

Am a lady of 25 years old, am very hard working and independent. Am dating a guy of same age, we both love each other and he has introduced me to his family. 
But what gives me concern is that any challenge my guy has he run down to me for help, cos he knows I earn more than him, am not saying it's wrong to help him in terms of needs but am also not comfortable about always giving him money. Anytime I visit him I pay my transport and end up giving him money. 
Yesterday he called again to ask for money assistance, I don't know if am doing the right thing , or how do I know he really loves me and not what he can get from me. 

This is a simple litmus paper test. Stop giving him money and find out what his attitude will be like. 
I know that the outcome may shock you but prepare your mind for anything because this man doesn't seem to me as though he appreciates your personality. 
I understand that you earn more than him and have selflessly decided to support him whenever he's in need but for him not to even give you transport fares from the same money you gave to him shows that there are things this man may not be telling you. 
How about managing his resources and funds, why is he so comfortable with requesting for money every second even when you don't know how or what he spends his money on. 
Yes the hugs and the kisses may be sweet at the moment but a man who is so comfortable with asking for money from his partner shouldn't be taken for granted to avoid getting married to a man who will be irresponsible and emotionally immature for the challenges of home building.


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