Tuesday, November 24, 2015

How Could She Do This to Me?

Good morning madam. I am emotionally destabilised right now,I am in pains,my heart bleeds.
I just discovered that my girlfriend whom I have given everything to including my heart has been cheating on me with a guy(a Corp member).
I have sworn to take revenge and harm the guy. As for my girlfriend,she has been blaming it on the devil,pleading,crying.
I want to let everything go so we can start over again but I can't seem to forget what happened and it is killing me,I wanted forever with her,I wanted to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her,I loved her.
How could she do this to me? suffice to say that I have neither abused her in anyway nor cheated on her . Please ma I want you to advice me on how to break up with her.
How can I possibly forget her and move on because I don't think it will ever be the same again between us,the stain can never be removed. 


Oh my goodness!  
My brother, I am sincerely broken by your mail and the truth is that nobody will understand how painful and disappointed you feel at the moment. 
I wish I could just hold you and just say nothing but I can't reach out to you to console you. 
Please hold your breath and calm down your Spirit, you don't need to fight or take a revenge though it may make you feel even but it won't heal you of the emptiness this has created in your heart. 
This is the best moment not to say much but to calm down and meditate either by writing down your pains or by meditating on what love truly entails to you in times like this. 
Please do not make any decision now not because you don't have the right to do so but because your emotions are raging and you may not be in the best frame of mind to know what's best step for you. 
This is a painful test of love that you have for your partner and how much you are willing to endure to be with her. 
For you to have felt broken down, lost and empty, it only shows the depth of your love for her and the height of your commitment to building your relationship with her. 
She cheated because she made herself vulnerable to cheat and by extension decided to cheat on you. 
But though it may be extremely difficult considering the trust that has been betrayed, you can still forgive her and accept her back if she's willing to repent and give herself totally to the relationship. 
This is where you will need to meet with your partner, calm her down and then have a heart to heart discussion with her to know exactly what is in her heart and her thoughts about the relationship and you. 
This is where you will know the state of her heart and her devotion to you and what lead her to sleep with another man. 
I cannot tell you what the outcome maybe but I know that if you love her heart and her vision more than her body, you will find a reason to forgive her and accept her back into your life.
This kind of test is better imagined than experienced but whatever decision you feel is best suited for your own happiness and fulfilment in life, please consider it prayerfully and with no sentiments.
We all have flaws and at one point or the other in our journey have offended those who love us and those that we love so much. 
We craved for mercy and forgiveness and sought for another chance or opportunity to start over again (that's what God refers to as GRACE) and God never denied us in those moments. 
Will this plot from the devil hinder you from getting married to the lady God has prepared for your journey (that is if you were convinced that she was the one God has prepared for your destiny) or will you choose to erase the spot of her weaknesses and shortcomings and surrender her to the willing hand of God Almighty? 
Will you give up on all the virtues and investment that you have made to build a future that you and your family will be proud of and heaven be grateful for or will you weep like Prophet Hosea and continue your journey with her? 
This is the best time to get close to God and simply allow him to speak to your soul, forget about all that your friends and many men might tell you about ladies who cheat and focus more on God's word in times like this. 
If at the end of your meditation and prayers and after communicating with her you are convinced that you cannot walk with her, you will find the grace to walk away and bid her goodbye. 
It is a tough time no doubt and and it was also difficult for me because I do know that you truly deserve better than such a new but because I know that God is preparing you for his purpose, I know that He will guide your heart to do that which is pleasing to him. 
Please forgive the Corp member and liberate him from your heart. I pray that God will give you the exceeding grace and the patience to wait on God and allow him to guide your heart in times like this. 
It's well with you beloved and we can talk more about this at your own convenience. 
God's grace. 

4 comments:

  1. Hey, is exactly 1year my lover came back to me, I’m letting you know how i got my ex back because this Christmas holiday everyone need there love ones around them not just your love ones but your lover, a year ago i was heartbroken and i knew i could not spend the holiday alone that is when i was looking for how i can make my lover come back to me so that we can make things right, to cut the long story short on a faithful day i came across the details i will be dropping on the internet, someone talking about how she got her ex back so i took this details I’m dropping via email: (((ekpentemple@gmail.com)) or +2347050270218 and i contact him and i told him that i want my lover to come back to me, today I’m with my lover. Thanks you Dr. EKPEN TEMPLE for the help.

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  2. Hey, is exactly 1year my lover came back to me, I’m letting you know how i got my ex back because this Christmas holiday everyone need there love ones around them not just your love ones but your lover, a year ago i was heartbroken and i knew i could not spend the holiday alone that is when i was looking for how i can make my lover come back to me so that we can make things right, to cut the long story short on a faithful day i came across the details i will be dropping on the internet, someone talking about how she got her ex back so i took this details I’m dropping via email: (((ekpentemple@gmail.com)) or +2347050270218 and i contact him and i told him that i want my lover to come back to me, today I’m with my lover. Thanks you Dr. EKPEN TEMPLE for the help.

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  3. I am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for over 9 years and we had two kids. thing were going well with us and we where always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treated me and the kids. later that month he did not come back home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted traditional spell hospital for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he casted on him that make him come back to me. my family and i are now happy again. Thank you Dr. Aluta for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact traditionalspellhospital@gmail.com and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay. He cast spells for different purposes

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  4. Love is sometimes pains and next day joyful we don't know how old are you but through your comments you seem being very young man or she's your first lover that is why you are expecting some advices regards to above if you still love her take your time and watch because thing can change any time so rush to break her down we never what tomorrow brings us.

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