Friday, December 25, 2015

Can a Man be Faithful?

Good evening ma, please ma how certain is this... # no man can ever be faithful or contented with one woman# cos I can't believe that a guy I have been with through rough and hard times till now things were becoming better was having another affair although he wasn't aware I knew (I have all the detailed proof) but he hasn't changed towards me still caring for us both.
Please can the men in this group answer me, are all men really polygamous? cos I don't understand why he was doing this cos I have put all my best in this relationship. My friends said love isn't faithfulness that men loves but they are never faithful.
How true is this ma?

Just like children, men love varieties of women and they feel accomplished by the number of women they have dominion over. Many researchers have proven that men are naturally unable to be faithful to one woman however men also do not value a relationship based on how wonderful the woman is in bed but how discerning, organised, supportive and her attitude to issues of life. 
This is why some men will be married but still feel comfortable sleeping around. To them it's not being unfaithful as long as they can provide all that the wife and children need from food to enjoying the fun of life. 
But because marriage isn't a man's ideology, we cannot accept the researcher's views and make it part of the marriage and family because it is flawed with so many challenges. 
Take for instance, if a man is sleeping around, there are  chances that he will infect his wife with sexually transmitted diseases and infections. Also such a lifestyle can make him to waste so much money trying to maintain his concubines and his wife thereby depleting his resources and distracting him from making investment in his family and in the process of having fun may end up with many children that will affect the dynamics of the marriage. 
This was why God ordained marriage on the stone of faithfulness and it's only those who have a personal relationship with God that will understand the principles of heaven concerning marriage. 
Since you have realised that he was unfaithful to you and the relationship, call him and let him know what you discovered and why he chose to betray you by having an affair with another lady. 
His reasons may be as good as dead but hear him out and then make your decision on whether to continue or quit the relationship. 
Remember only those who have a personal relationship with God that will understand that faithfulness isn't a favour you owe to your wife and partner but a commandment you owe to God and no matter how nice a man can be, if he doesn't understand this basic principle, I'm afraid to say that he will be vulnerable to infidelity. 
I know that you will be worried because of all you have invested but look at it from this angle, any flaw you don't know of while you are dating or courting has the potential to destroy your marriage in the future so take your time and evaluate what you really want in a partner and in your marriage so that when you get married, you will be prepared emotionally, psychologically and spiritually to know what you can accommodate and help your partner become a better man than when you met him.


  1. I am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for over 9 years and we had two kids. thing were going well with us and we where always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treated me and the kids. later that month he did not come back home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted traditional spell hospital for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he casted on him that make him come back to me. my family and i are now happy again. Thank you Dr. Aluta for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay. He cast spells for different purposes

  2. Be careful woman... .

    Don't joke with God.

    Stop advertising evil
    God is alive and can solve all your problems

    Please people don't listen to this evil advise......... She's looking for who to trap into the captivity she's into........she's regretting believe me.

    1. na wa for people,this is to tell you how far the devil has gotten a hold of them.

  3. wonders they say shall never end,"".


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