Wednesday, December 30, 2015

He Doesn't Want to Tie me Down!

Compliments of the season ma. I really love him but he would be going for a six months training without communications and I told him I would wait for him but he asked me to go and continue with my life that when he comes back he would come for me so that we can continue with the relationship.
He said the reason was that he doesn't want it to look as if he was tying me down in the relationship and I told him hell NO I can't do that,but he kept ringing it to my hearing that I should do that. He would be going for the training on the first of January.
Please ma I am confused I don't know what to do.

You see when a man begins to sound as though he's doing you a special favour and begins to give you reasons why you should move on and not wait for him, it's a clear sign that he doesn't appreciate you well enough to make a lasting commitment with you. 
Talk about a man who is thirsty for love and he will even give his ghost just to be with you, you will be the one who will be scared and worried while he will literally bug you morning, mid morning, afternoon and midnight just to make sure that nobody gets close to your heart. 
He won't see any limitations nor be so busy to consider giving you the option of moving on,some will even go and meet your parents just to let them know that he's as serious as the ant to make a lasting impression to all that cares to know. 
But when the reverse is the case, it's either that there is someone around the corner or he was only there to fill up the space but never to get close to your heart. 
What to do? As the year winds down, kindly flush every debris of him out of your life and start the new year in a better note. I sincerely pray that God will open your eyes to spot every time wasters in your life so that you don't live your life gathering stones while gold passes you by. 
Appreciate him and wish him the very best in his studies but move on and trust God to bless you with your own husband. For the fact that he's heading abroad doesn't necessarily mean that he's the best for you nor does it mean that you should stop living and start waiting for him. That will be giving him so much power to control and determine your future. 
If God be on the throne, all things will work together for your good. Love is not what you beg to receive but what you both need to nurture so if he's no longer willing to invest in the relationship, kindly bid him goodbye and embrace the beauty of loving and appreciating yourself. 

1 comment:

  1. " Talk about a man who is thirsty for love and he will
    even give his ghost just to be with you, you will be the
    one who will be scared and worried while he will
    literally bug you morning, mid morning, afternoon and
    midnight just to make sure that nobody gets close to
    your heart. "

    Undisputed Fact.
    You are an ASSET to be VALUED not a Liability to be Managed

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