Monday, February 22, 2016

Am Going Crazy Right Now!

God bless you aunty Amara, am S. My heart is boiling now, I met this girl in 2009, when we were in first year. Throughout our school I was the one taking care of her, giving her money and changing phones for her, even paid eighty thousand naira for her to get registration number because she had problem of O'level. A times she will be shedding tears of joy because of the way I loved her.
Before we graduated from school, we promised ourselves marriage, we planned how we will like our family to be like. Then after we graduated, to meet up and marry her I didn't go for NYSC, I just took my statement of result and travelled to Abuja and started business. Then she was now doing her NYSC in Akwa Ibom, and was doing well in business, then she called me one day and told me that if I want this relationship to continue, then I have to be coming to Akwa Ibom to visit her, that she doesn't believe in long distance relationship and she is not a wood. I just took it like a joke and told her to be patient and know that it's just some time this year, I will come and marry her and we will spend our life together forever, within me I trusted her, I called her everyday and I didn't waste time in sending her money anytime she requested it.
To my greatest surprise, last week I called her and she picked my call and told me immediately that it's over that am not her future husband, after saying that, she cut the call without allowing me to talk. Immediately I called her sister and her sister confirmed it by telling me that am not the only good man on earth, that God doesn't want me to marry her sister. This is the girl I have stayed with for six years and months now, I cried like idiot that day, I have called her million times, and I have sent thousands of messages to her but to no avail. I have planned to meet her people this year and start traditional marriage rite. Who will wipe my tears? Who will help me in this problem? I can't control myself, am crying like a baby. A times during our stay in school, some of my guys from Enugu and Anambra will always tell me to be careful with Imo state girls, that Imo state girls are heartless when it comes to breaking someone's heart and I will always tell them that my girl is different and quiet, and too character is individual difference, but now I have seen the result. This is a girl I spent on her as if she is my wife already.
Aunty Amara, am going crazy right now, were will I start now? My friends are laughing at me now. I have been a mugu. Am not thinking right again, Which drug will I take now to overcome it? What will I do?


This has nothing to do with her state of origin but it has so much to do with her circle of influence and her personality. 
You mail is a painful one and on my part, I would love to talk with her to find out more about this and what she's not saying that could have made her forget her promises. 
For any reason, if anyone makes a promise, he is she is bound by the promise and when for whatsoever reasons he or she doesn't fulfill the promise, the consequences will set in someday. 
I don't want you to lose your mind because a girl disappointed you or because your friends are making mockery of your circumstances. Be strong and be positive, if she feels that she's smarter and better than you, kindly give her the space because a lady who will exploit your love and treat you with great disdain surely won't be of help to you nor will she make you happy as a man. 
Cheer up, man may fail or disappoint but God is ever faithful and will never leave you without a comfort. Please devote your heart to your business and stop communicating with her or trying to reach out to her. 
Be foolish in the eyes of men and leave God to reward you and your partner for her attitude to you. 
You need to be alive for you to get married so please do not consider doing anything that will tamper with your life and safety. 

9 comments:

  1. My dear take heart, it haas nothing to do with being from imo state, thank Ur God that it's over n pray 4 grace to overcome. Good people face trials, but they end being rewarded. Don't stop beiing a good man n a better woman, one who doesn't change with the weather will come to U

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  2. Chai....u are a good man...just find solace in God...nothing heals faster than d word of God...it's gon b hard...but it gets waayyyy better...wen it gets better...and it will...

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  3. Chai....u are a good man...just find solace in God...nothing heals faster than d word of God...it's gon b hard...but it gets waayyyy better...wen it gets better...and it will...

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  4. oh my God what a word, why is paining me now is that ur future wife will suffer this heart break becus even if u marry another woman u will not love her this way you love this your girl. pls dear poster forget her and move on becus it can happened to anyone. infact I don happened to me, ur own na 6yrs while mine na 12yrs I swear not to love again.

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  5. It's difficult yes, but always praise God in all situations ,who knows what would have happened in the future if you had married her ? Wipe your tears and misconceptions about Imo girls its all about the individual and conscience ,God will surprise you with a good woman who will take care of you in Jesus name Amen !

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  6. Trust me is either one corp member has taken over or an oil worker, if she is serving anywhere close to Eket those oil workers at mobil hmmm.I always advice guys don't train a girl with a hope of getting married to her after graduation is better you get married to her first.

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  7. Mark my work dear poster,
    She will come back begging and she will won't see someone that luv her like u do,
    You know y am happy for u?God will now bless u with a woman that will love u and woship u more than u can imagin, let her go,..
    Dust ur self clean ur tears and tell ur self such is life
    U will fine love again she just prove to u that she's not worth ur luv,

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  8. Mark my work dear poster,
    She will come back begging and she will won't see someone that luv her like u do,
    You know y am happy for u?God will now bless u with a woman that will love u and woship u more than u can imagin, let her go,..
    Dust ur self clean ur tears and tell ur self such is life
    U will fine love again she just prove to u that she's not worth ur luv,

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  9. Some oil servicing company guy is distracting her. Find luv and move on before she comes back after they have dumped her like a piece of rag.
    True luv will sure find u!

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