Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Confused with What I Saw!

I lost my job four months to my wedding and my fiancee refuse to proceed with the marriage plans. She fixed an introduction with another man on our previous fixed wedding month. I spent all the time to convince her that we should go ahead with our marriage plans that my jobless condition does not mean I can not marry her. I practically begged her, but she has made up her mind already to go ahead with the her plans. At this point both of us were graduates but she was yet to serve.
I discovered her various relationship, when I wanted to use my system which she always used each time she visited her. I wanted to open my Facebook and her Facebook opened because she forgot to log out. I am still confused because of what I saw.
Anyway, I've forgiven her because she is a very young girl without much experience and apart from being my lover, girlfriend and my wife to be, I treat her as my younger sister. The most annoying part now is that she is still denying when I've seen everything with concrete evidence. The truth is that I love her so much and I am confused. I do not know what to do. Please help me.


She may be young to you but she's not as naive as you perceive her to be. She's simply not putting all her eggs in one basket aka desperate chicks. 
She's out for anyone who has the cash and she's willing to let go of love and get care from a loving man (rich and generous).
For the fact that she could lie to you and still adamantly defend her lies shows that you are truly in love with her beauty but she doesn't have the qualities that you crave for in a lady. 
You proposed marriage, she accepted, you went for introduction and she presented you but immediately you lost your job, she changed the plan.. Lol please wake up now that you can clearly see her attributes. 
I have no idea what's on her mind but if you feel that I should talk with her, perhaps you may encourage her to write to me here(solely your decision). 
A lady who is emotionally mature and psychologically prepared for the realities of life and marriage will not dump you like that as though you mean nothing to her without money but she will rally round and support you, encourage you to believe in yourself and help you to secure another job or even start up a business. 
Only heavens know what would have been your story if you were married before losing your job. 
While you are working hard to convince her, please work harder to start up something that will help you keep body and soul together no matter how little it maybe. 
And please do not be in a haste to marry her to avoid regrets.

5 comments:

  1. This story need to be reviewed! I doubt if it's just as straight as it's written here!

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  2. These stories is a reoccurring decimal. It will still happen tomorrow. Some times some men no the hear word. So God loves them and he will use this method to deliver them. Mr Man God is about to bless you and he needed the stranger to go. so that you will not regret at the end, I really see that you still the girl. She does not worth the love is your pain is her gain

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  3. These stories is a reoccurring decimal. It will still happen tomorrow. Some times some men no dey hear word. God loves them and he will use this method to deliver them. Mr Man God is about to bless you and he needed the stranger to go. That was why you lost your job, so that you will not regret at the end, I really see that you still love the girl. She does not worth the love if your pain is her gain

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  4. fairly tales .seems like infatuation love

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