Wednesday, March 2, 2016

He Wants Romance in the Relationship!

Thanks for your advice in this forum. Am 25 years, I have emailed you regarding a related issue after your advice I decided to give this a try......
There was this guy who has been wooing me for the past three years now, I wasn't interested in him all those while cos I never wanted to keep any relationship then cos of personal reasons but still he never gave up though in those years. We missed contacts and in one way or the other we reunited again.
In those years too I have studied him and he is everything I wanted in a man and falling in love with lately because I love his personality and everything about him. During those years at a point I wanted to give him a try but I gave him a mandate which he was not able to fulfill which was no sex relationship but he openly told me he can't which led to most of our disconnection. He blocked me in all social media and changed his contact too, he told me before he did that though and I gave him a go ahead cos he said he can't cope with seeing my pictures or contact without him having me.
So on December 25th last year we met again at a party and exchanged contacts, our communication started this time we became closer that I was now falling for him though again he raised the same relationship topic and I gave him same mandate and again he said he can't that he will be cheating on me if he agrees on that which he doesn't want so just last week he called and said he will give it a try on the ground that kissing and romance will be involved which I think might lead to sex am an emotional being and I love him now and don't want to lose him.
Am confused and don't know what to do because am strongly against sex before marriage...... Advice needed thanks, God bless you ma'am.


Like you said that you are strongly against premarital sex, I will encourage you not to compromise on your convictions because allowing him to romance and kiss you may make you to lose your grip on your decision and the rest will be history.
His real intentions is not to grow in love with you but to explore your vagina and then let you know whether he will continue with the exploration or to bid you goodbye. Seems like the most important discussion about your relationship is sex and if you are serious about your decision, perhaps you may need to tell yourself some honest truth.

4 comments:

  1. Dear Amara i am soo much in love with this your answer @poster thats the PLAIN TRUTH.

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  3. Pls be careful, this guy MIGHT dump u after he gets what he wants.
    He keeps going and trying again. He obviously does not luv u. I had a relationship switching off and on and I later found out he had other girlS he was seeing and still trying his luck on me. I found out and took a straight walk without confronting him

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  4. Pls be careful, this guy MIGHT dump u after he gets what he wants.
    He keeps going and trying again. He obviously does not luv u. I had a relationship switching off and on and I later found out he had other girlS he was seeing and still trying his luck on me. I found out and took a straight walk without confronting him

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