My name is V, am a 300level student of one of the state university... I met this guy in my year one, we fell in love and started dating.. Before I met him I had so many male friends and I relate with them very well, I have always had this mentality that being in a relationship doesn't stop you from having other friends...
But I had to drop some of my life styles because he wasn't okay with them, I curtailed my friendship with guys just to make my man happy.... We had an undastanding of not engaging in sex until we get married...
Ma, I really don't understand what is happening now.. These days he talks to girls anyhow, relate with them very well which I don't have any problem with yet he won't want me to keep few male friends.....
Why will he feel bad whenever he sees me talking to another guy even when he does same? I don't get it ma.. He is a very nice guy and quite supportive but his attitude towards my social life is quite unfair to me...
Please I need your advice
This is exactly what you should let him know that for the fact that you have male friends doesn't in any way mean or suggest that you are flashing your panties with them.
Trust is not what is earned by living a boring and selfish life but by your personality, integrity, honesty and commitment to your relationship.
You need to open up and let him know that you are worried about his attitude and that you are not comfortable with the idea of policing and monitoring your life when he can be rest assured that you are always committed to the relationship.
If he's not comfortable with your friends and your social life, you may have to choose whether to continue with him or to move on with your life.
The consequences of his attitude is that no matter how faithful you are, as long as you have a male friend, he may not trust you.
You don' suppose to keep male friends my dear.
ReplyDelete1, YOU DO NOT BECOME EXCLUSIVE UNTIL MARRIAGE HAS BEEN PROPOSED TO YOU AND YOU HAVE ACCEPTED.
ReplyDelete2. YOU DO NOT BECOME EXCLUSIVE UNTIL YOUR PARTNER BECOME EXCLUSIVE(esp. For the ladies)
3. ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ARE STRICTLY FORTHE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE AND IT IS FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE. If you are not ready for marriage,just stay away and build your network of friends.
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If you violate any of these rules,you will harvest confusion. Go and get the book,'Waiting And Dating' by Myles Munroe. It contains the basic things you need to know.
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