Hi aunty Amara,I am a fan of yours, I really need your advice,I am going through hell right now. I am in my early thirties, I have a boyfriend of two years, but when I met him he told me about a girl he was dating before travelling to America, but he doesn't wish to marry her cos of some certain reasons, I didn't want to venture into the relationship but he lured me into it, he begged me and I finally accepted.
To cut the long story short, he promised he will marry me(from my town Enugwu-ukwu)he called me everyday for hours, promising heaven and earth, he told me his sisters held a meeting for him telling him not to marry that same girl and that he has told the girl in question. He promised to come back and meet my parents and probably plan on how to pay bride price and others,now he is back in Nigeria and completely a different person, I always do the calling, he doesn't call me if I don't call.
I have been crying for the past two weeks now, just last night I called him only for the girl to tell him to drop the call which he did and started sending text messages that his heart still beats for me, this guy made me turn down so many suitors and now this is how he paid me back.... I really need to talk to someone before I'll run mad. Please I am in dire need of some words of encouragement, I have never seen myself in this condition all my life, I don't eat and I don't sleep.
Man may promise and disappoint because the heart of a man cannot be trusted but God's word is everlasting and beyond the scope of human perception and understanding. Please do not starve yourself and get unnecessarily frustrated because of what he did to hurt you.
Please choose to forgive him and delete every trace of him in your life. Learn from this never to put your trust in men but in God's word and grace.
He knows better than your worries and concerns and he will never disappoint anyone who put his trust and confidence in him.
Cheer up, remember that God is never too late to fulfil his promises for your life and you can always trust in his words.
He will bless you with your own husband and wipe away your tears.
Ok....he begged u...so u accepted...really??...lol...well...its always good to read smthing interesting on a boring...rainy...fueless and cashless Tuesday morning...lol..get over his lying ass abeg!!
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ReplyDeleteWhen a man promises to betray another woman just to have you, expect betrayal in return..
What you're passing through is what you bargained for...
It's a very calm form of wickedness cos you indirectly gave him the licence to break a fellow womans heart..
When next a guy approaches you with such undiluted lie, rebuke that devil instantly...
It's a pity and it's painful...
Try to be considerate next time...
A man that makes such promise is not worth being with and a lady that agrees to such term and condition is not free from guilt too..
It depicts total wickedness...
Move on sis
Take heart
ReplyDeleteTake heart
ReplyDeleteMy dear, it's not easy, but no man is worth your tears,just move on.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear. Do not dwell on your pains because he ( supposed fiancee) is having fun at your expense. The heart of man is desperately wicked. God alone can heal your pain but you must allow Him in first.
ReplyDeleteCast your tears upon Him & He will bring you succor. I'm telling you this from a close friend's experience.
Your God-chosen husband will come, not to worry. Take heart & be strong. GOD BLESS YOU
It is well with you dear. Do not dwell on your pains because he ( supposed fiancee) is having fun at your expense. The heart of man is desperately wicked. God alone can heal your pain but you must allow Him in first.
ReplyDeleteCast your tears upon Him & He will bring you succor. I'm telling you this from a close friend's experience.
Your God-chosen husband will come, not to worry. Take heart & be strong. GOD BLESS YOU