Friday, June 3, 2016

Her Misson is to Marry my Husband!

Good evening ma, God bless you for your inspirations here. Please am a lady of 26 years, got married to my husband on Dec 14th 2014. So my husband was asked to relocate to Uyo, Akwa Ibom state to learn a business cos he has not been in Nigeria in the year 2015. God being so faithful I took in immediately after our wedding, so my parents seeing that he was new to Nigeria took me up during the pregnancy period till birth, but during the pregnancy period it was hell to me cos I never got happiness from him rather he was causing me tears.
I put to bed successfully and probably a baby boy, he didn't come to see the boy till one month.. After exams in 2016, he decided that I will move in with baby to his base. Living with him was hell, even he beats me all the time, still at the end of it all he never denied giving us money for food everyday but the last thing he will say is sorry, rather he will buy gifts for me which has been their nature in their family.
So I decided to go through prayers and it was revealed that my hubby was sleeping with a lady older than him months after our wedding, that was during the pregnancy period and this lady lives in the same compound with us and jobless. When I found out and noticed that it was true when I entered my compound, cos I travelled one month and my hubby never cared to know about us, I kept on praying over the issue.
One night my hubby came back again to beat me up, then I raised up a weapon which scared him away so we started quarrelling that night. I told him to please go and marry the lady let me have my peace that enough of this nonsense. Then during the misunderstanding the lady came out and challenged me, in the process of exchanging words with her, she spoke every discussion that i had with my hubby in my matrimonial bed which hurt me.
My hubby called my parents and told them that if anything happens to me here that he is not responsible. So I packed my belongings and insisted he took me back with my son to my parents,so he did. After the whole thing my parents insisted I will stay with them let's see how it goes..
Now am confused cos this lady's mission is that my hubby will push me out to marry her. I don't know what to do now.


The crack that brought this separation was when you accepted that he go for training alone while you stay with your parents. The very essence of getting married was for you and your husband to be one and work together in all your endeavours, supporting him, growing in love with him, and living with him no matter how little or big his apartment might be.
The gap made him find a 'temporary' replacement pending when he has known Nigeria and some desperate ladies. The gap made him see you as a stranger, maltreated and abused you even while you were pregnant and when you joined him.
In as much as you wish to continue with the marriage, have you taken your time to re-examine your journey with him and meditate on the impact of this marriage in your life spiritually, emotionally and psychologically.
While you may feel threatened by the strange lady, do you really feel happy with your husband? Though you might argue that you want your son to grow in the presence of his father, are you really comfortable with his constant physical and emotional abuse?
Can you cope with his personality and his influence? Can you cope with potential sexually transmitted infections and his extramarital affairs? Is living with him the best way for you to experience peace, love and fulfilment in your life?
Has he made any effort to reconcile with you? Has he made amends in his attitude? Has he in anyway thought of apologising to your family for his attitude towards you and your son? Or are you allowing loneliness to push you into the wrong person?
I also pray and hope that your marriage will succeed, but beyond that I pray that God will preserve you so that you can give your best to your son. Your greatest competition is not that lady and whatever he decides to do with her, your greatest competition is giving your son the best that nobody else can give to him.
Please don't be in a haste to return back to him until you have taken your time to seek the face of God concerning your marriage, meditating on all you have experienced in your marriage and evaluating your prospects and purpose for which you decided to get married to him so that you can avoid any loopholes that may have a dangerous effect on your life and your son.

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