Saturday, September 24, 2016

Should I Marry A Smoker?

Good morning Aunty Amara, I thank you for making me learn much from your page. I am in a state of affliction now, I have a boyfriend that has always been there for me always but on the December 13th 2015 he started dating another girl that made two of us to depart.

But now I have somebody that wants to marry me now and my mother is telling me that he is not an Igbo man. I love this man but there is one thing that I don't like about him which is (smoking).
Ma I need your advice, should I go ahead and marry him because he wants to come with his people on the 1st Oct 2016. Please advice me on what to do, should I allow him to come?

Smoking is an addiction and not everyone is comfortable with the smoke that comes with smoking.
It can take twenty one days to deal with such addiction if the individual is comfortable with enrolling for a therapy. Where the person doesn't see anything wrong with that, you have the option either to accept him and his smoking habit or to bid him goodbye and trust God for a man who doesn't smoke.
But don't marry a man with hope that he will change because he may not, rather marry a man who have the virtues that you need in a man and a man you can accommodate his weaknesses.
As regards to your mum's perception of his tribe, if you're convinced that he's the one and comfortable with his personality, you will definitely find a way to convince your mother to accept him.

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