Should I Leave Him and Move on With my Life?

Good afternoon ma, I have an issue that has been bothering me, I have been dating a guy for two years now, we stayed together for a while before he travelled. I live in Enugu while he went to Benin because of work. We were communicating on phone everyday, he spent almost a year plus in Benin without coming to see me.

When he finally came so many things changed about him, he nags at any little thing I do, I also found out that he was seeing another lady but he denied it. I was feeling the separation of our hearts, anytime he is around he always makes me sad instead of being happy, I fear for my future. When he came we had sex, and I told him am pregnant, meanwhile I just wanted to see his reaction. To my greatest shock he said I should go for an abortion, he has been on my neck begging me that he is not ready.
Am so confused, should I leave him and move on with my life or should I just tell him it was a lie? please ma what should I do? Thanks


It's obvious that he's not interested in a long term commitment with you, but only interested in a casual relationship with you. 
If you are comfortable with this kind of relationship, you may continue with him, but if you want something that is genuine, and someone who is emotionally and mentally prepared to take the responsibility for his actions and decision in life, then you need to move on with your life.
His reaction to your pregnancy scare is enough to let you know that he's just around for sex and not for marriage.